A Walk To Remember

Pinjamkan Cinta-MU

2010-09-25T11:44:00.002+08:00

hari ini...
dia kata..dia cintakan saya...
besok?
dia kata...dia akan cintakan saya juga...
lusa?
dia kata..dia tetap akan cintakan saya...
sampai bila?
dia kata..dia janji sampai bila2...

itu kata dia...
saya kata..
hari ini...saya cintakan dia...
besok..saya yakin saya masih cintakan dia...
lusa..pasti saya masih cintakan dia..
sampai bila...mungkin selagi saya bernyawa...

tapi...
itu kata dia...itu kata saya...
bukan saya yang tentukan hati dia akan tetap jadi milik saya selamanya...
bukan kuasa saya untuk pastikan cinta dia hanya untuk saya..
diluar kemampuan saya untuk halang dia dari jatuh hati pada yang lain selain saya..
bukan kuasa dia juga untuk pastikan saya sentiasa jadi miliknya..
bukan kemampuan dia untuk tentukan yang cinta saya selamanya untuk dia..
bukan dia yang tentukan yang saya akan sentiasa ada untuknya...

kerana..
cinta itu..
sebenarnya milik Allah...
kasih itu...
anugerah Allah..
sayang itu..
hadiah Allah...

Allah bagi pinjam cinta dia pada saya...
semuanya milik Allah...
hanya Allah yang mampu kekalkan cinta dia untuk saya...
hanya Allah yang berhak tentukan yang dia akan jadi milik saya selamanya..
hanya Allah jualah yang berkuasa kekalkan kasih sayang dia hanya untuk saya...

tapi...
jika takdir Allah adalah sebaliknya...
jika kasih dia untuk saya hanya sementara...
jika cinta dia untuk saya bukan untuk selamanya..
jika hati dia bukan pada saya hingga ke akhirnya...
siapalah saya untuk mempersoalkannya...
siapalah saya untuk mempertikaikannya...
siapalah saya untuk menghalangnya...
kerana..segalanya adalah milik Allah jua..

kerana itu..
saya redha jika cinta,kasih,sayang yang Allah hadiahkan pada saya hari ini..
ditarik semula oleh tuannya..
saya pasrah jika hatinya..ditakdirkan bukan milik saya lagi suatu hari nanti...
saya akur..jika..hatinya diisi insan lain yang lebih berhak suatu ketika nanti..
kerana....semua itu milik Allah...

cuma..
rayu saya pada tuhan...
jangan ambil semula cintanya dari saya..
jangan tarik semula kasihnya untuk saya...
jangan palingkan hatinya dari saya..
jangan padamkan sayangnya untuk saya..
izinkan dia menyayangi saya seumur hidupnya..
benarkan kami sentiasa bersama dalam cinta...
biarkan kami kekal berdua di dunia..sampai ke syurga...

benar...cinta itu milik-Mu..
tapi benarkan kami memilikinya..
benar...kasih itu milik-Mu..
tapi izinkan kami merasainya...
benar..sayang itu milik-Mu..
tapi biarkan ianya kekal bersama kami selamanya...
kasihanilah kami...rahmatilah kami...bahagiakanlah kami..
hanya pada-Mu kami merayu...
hanya pada-Mu kami mengharap...
hanya pada-Mu kami memohon...

pertemukanlah jodoh kami...kekalkanlah...dan temukanlah kami semula di syurga...
amin...ya Allah...

Gerun pada Teduh

2010-09-12T22:58:00.003+08:00

Dan aku masih enggan berteduh,
Terkenang akan rapuhnya sang awan,
Teringat pada teriknya panas yang membahang..

Bukan sengaja hati kubekukan,
Agar tidak terbahasakan perasaan,
Dek terbiasa menimbus rasa,
menanam kecewa...
Aku jadi lebih tega, berdusta dari derita...

Bukan tidak kusayang,
Kasihku takkan pernah bisa tergambarkan,
Tapi kewajaran, ada untuk membataskan...
Yang terbaik adalah kamu,
Sedang aku, malah tidak layak bergalar picisan...

Dan aku masih gerun pada teduh,
Yang memayungi ubun-ubun,
Kerana awan itu masih akan rapuh...

Betapa,
Dalam setiap kiriman doa,
Pada setiap denyut nadi yang terasa,
Hanya ada kamu, yang terlihat walau tanpa nyata...
Betapa,
Dalam setiap ingatan yang tersisa,
Pada setiap langkah dan nafas yang dihela,
Hanya ada kamu, yang tergambar dalam maya...

Dan,
Kewarasan masih lagi membataskan,
Menyedarkan,
Jangan pernah diriku lupa dimana bumi,
Hingga tanganku cuba menggapai pelangi...

Untuk Sunanku yang jauh,
Dimata...tidak di jiwa

Aku masih lagi gerun pada teduh untuk bernaung, kerana awan itu akan sentiasa rapuh...

Tentang Masa Lalu

2010-08-21T18:35:00.000+08:00

Sungguh,

Bukan aku menolak ketentuan Ilahi,

Apalagi ingkar pada suratan yang tertulis,

Aku hanya ingin,

Meluah rasa yang belum pernah terucap,

Buat insan yang terlalu istimewa

Insan yang tanpa jemu mendidik,

Walau pesannya kubuat endah tak endah...

Insan yang tanpa ragu meyakini,

Meski sering jua ku ingkari janji...

Insan yang tak pernah marah,

Walau tingkahku membunuh rasa sabar dan

tabah...

Insan yang seringkali merawat,

Setiap rasa sakit dan luka...

Insan yang tak pernah membantah,

Walau kehendakku kadangkala tak sudah-

sudah...

Insan yang setia menghapus air mata,

Walau tangisku kadangkala sia-sia...

Insan yang menghulurkan tangan,

Membantu dalam setiap kesusahan,

Insan yang terus mendengar

Setiap kesalan dan keluh kesah

Insan yang menjadikan air mataku sebegini

murah,

Yang mendidikku bahawa cinta adalah amanah,

Yang menjadikanku manja dan tabah,

Yang menjadikanku riang dan tegas,

Yang melimpahkanku dengan perhatian dan

kasih sayang,

Tanpa pernah menagih balasan

Sungguh,

Bukan aku menyesali apa terjadi,

Apalagi menidakkan takdir,

Aku hanya resah,

Mengingatkan seorang insan yang telah pergi,

Tanpa mungkin kembali...

(Al-Fatihah - Iskand`86-07)

Risau...

2010-04-13T05:16:00.001+08:00

Bangun je pagi hari ni..kerisauan bertambah dengan mendadak..tak tau la kenape....memangla dalam dua bulan ni asyik risaukan keselamatan n kesejahteraan (cam lagu sejahtera malaysia pulak) die, tapi takde la sampai 24/7 cam sekarang????

adekah mental saya bermasaalah?!?!?!?!?!??!??!?!?!?!??!?!

apepun, semoga dia selamat dan sihat sentiasa....

Ku Titipkan Dia di bawah Jaggan-MU

2010-04-10T01:00:00.000+08:00

entri ni dah masuk kat notes facebook...copy n edit sket2 je kat sini

Wahai pemilik alam dan seluruh isinya,
Hati ini bergetar sepanjang masa,
Berdoa akan keselamatan dan kesejahteraan dirinya,
Betapa hati ini lega,
Bila dia berada di depan mata...

Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Pengasih lagi Penyayang
Secebis rasa yang kau tinggalkan
Telahpun menghuni seluruh hati dan perasaan...

Tuhan,
Hanya-KAU yang mampu memahami derita perasaan
Tak tertanggung rasanya
Tak terucap pedihnya

Ya ALLAH,
Peliharalah dia dari sebarang kecelakaan
Hidupkan dan matikanlah dia dalam iman
Kerana aku tidak mampu untuk melafaz walau serangkap perkataan
Meski hanya ucapan selamat jalan

Wahai Pemilik Hati Ini,
Iringilah setiap lagkahnya dengan keredhaan-MU
Kasihanilah dia di setiap waktu

Wahai Tuhan Semesta Alam
Ku titipkan dia di bawah jagan-MU
untuk dipelihara dari segala ancaman
untuk dilindungi dalam setiap perbuatan

Tuhanku yang Maha Penyayang
Hanya KAU yang mengetahui
siapa 'dia' yang kumaksudkan

Cerita Tentang Dia...

2010-04-08T18:44:00.001+08:00

Salam..dah lama sangat rasanya tak menulis kat sini..rindu memang rindu, tapi nak buat macammane, keadaan kurang mengizinkan...insyallah, lepas ni akan cuba untuk update blog sekerap mungkin...

dah lama sebenarnya nak share something kat blog ni..macam tajuk entri yang tertera kat atas tu..nak cerita sikit tentang dia...

Dia ni manusia biasa...sempurna fizikal (mental tak tau la, insyallah sihat kot)...tapi yang membuatkan dia ni special ialah setiap kali tengok dia, mesti teringat kat seseorang ni..kalau korang baca trilogi bagaikan puteri karya ramlee awang murshid, korang mesti familiar dengan watak saifudin jalis @ laksamana sunan...itulah orangnye...

memang macam tak logik @ kebudak-budakkan @ tak matang (walaupun dah 20-an), tapi memang kekaguman pada laksamana sunan dalam novel tu sangat tinggi..sampai rasa nak cari kalau2 ade lagi orang mcm tu kat zaman sekarang..tapi susah dah kot..

Okey, berbalik pasal die lagi..nak panggil ape ye..kang kalau tulis nama sebenar kantoi la pulak. . huhu...buat mase sekarang belum dapat idea lagi..panggil dia je la dulu, nanti dah dapat ilham kite tukar name ok? die takde la perfect sampai takde salah langsung..`tapi, setiap kelemahan awak, kekurangan awak..itulah kesempurnaan bagi saya' chewah!! memetik kata2 stella dalam cite semerah cinta stilletto...haha.

Sapu sampah...Kemas rumah

2010-04-08T18:37:00.001+08:00

Bangun! Bangun!
Sapu sampah
kemas rumah
buang sawang kat blog....

dah lame sangat tak update blog ni..
bukan setakan sawang je yang hinggap
sekali dah macam haunted mansion da...

takpe2...anggapla ni sebagai mukadimah baru...

Sampaikan Padanya

2010-01-16T21:39:00.000+08:00

Tolong sampaikan pada si dia…

Tolong beritahu si dia aku ada pesanan buatnya..
Tolong beritahu si dia, cinta agung adalah cintaNya..
Tolong beritahu si dia, cinta manusia bakal membuatnya alpa..

Tolong nasihati sia dia, jangan menyintaiku lebih dari dia menyintai Yang Maha Esa..
Tolong nasihati si dia,jangan mengingatiku lebih dari dia mengingati Yang Maha Kuasa..
Tolong nasihati si dia, jangan mendoakanku lebih dari dia mendoakan ibu bapanya..

Tolong katakan pada si dia, dahulukan Allah kerana di situ ada syurga..
Tolong katakan pada si dia, dahulukan ibu bapanya kerana di telapak itu syurganya..

Tolong ingatkan si dia. Aku terpikat kerana imannya bukan rupa..
Tolong ingatkan si dia. Aku lebih cintakan zuhudnya bukan harta..
Tolong ingatkan si dia aku kasihinya kerana santunnya..

Tolong tegur si dia, bila dia mula mengagungkan cinta manusia..
Tolong tegur si dia, bila dia tenggelam dalam angan-angannya..
Tolong tegur si dia, andai nafsu mengawal fikirannya..

Tolong sedarkan si dia. Aku milik Yang Maha Esa..
Tolong sedarkan si dia. Aku masih milik keluarga..
Tolong sedarkan si dia, tanggungjawabnya besar kepada keluarganya..

Tolong sabarkan si dia, usah ucap cinta di kala cita-cita belum terlaksana..
Tolong sabarkan si dia, andai diri ini enggan dirapati kerana menjaga batasan cinta..
Tolong sabarkan si dia, bila jarak mejadi penyebab bertambah rindunya..

Tolong pesan padanya. Aku tidak mahu menjadi fitnah besar kepadanya..
Tolong pesan padanya. Aku tak mahu menjadi punca kegagalannya..
Tolong pesan padanya aku membiarkan Yang Esa menjaga dirinya..

Tolong khabarkan pada si dia. Aku tidak mahu melekakan dia..
Tolong khabarkan pada si dia. Aku mahu dia berjaya dalam impian dan cita-citanya..
Tolong khabarkan pada si dia, jadilah penyokong dalam kejayaanku..

Tolong sampaikan pada si dia. Aku mendambakan cinta suci yang terjaga..
Tolong sampaikan pada si dia,cinta kerana Allah tidak ternilai harganya..
Tolong sampaikan pada si dia, hubungan ini terjaga selagi dia menjaga hubungan dengan Yang Maha Kuasa..
Tolong sampaikan kepada si dia kerana aku tidak mampu memberitahunya sendiri...

Hanya engkau Ya Allah mengetahui siapa si dia.. Moga pesananku sampai padanya walau aku sendiri tidak mengetahui siapa dan dimana si dia.. Moga dia seekor lebah yang sentiasa memuji keagungan Yang Maha Kuasa memasuki taman larangan dengan sopan santunnya dan bertemu mawar berduri yang terjaga oleh tuannya.. Simpanlah pesanan ku ini sehingga engkau bertemu diriku suatu hari nanti...

pena tidak lagi menari..dek air mata yang mula membasahi

2010-01-03T01:01:00.003+08:00

bila pena yang selalunya pantas menari terhenti-henti..
bila jari yang selalunya lincah di papan kekunci seolah kehilangan kemudi...
bilamana detik rasa yang bertemu dan bersatu dalam hatiku...
tak mampu kuterjemahkan lagi kepada puisi...

jiwa yang pernah tepu berisi kecewa.
pernah juga melimpah dengan tawa gembira

raga yang pernah terhiris luka,
pernah jua berbunga kembang sena.

kiranya kutahu dari dulu..
kasih yang ada,
bukan hanya bernama cinta...
cinta dan memiliki,
adalah dua entiti ynag berbeda...

pasti hati tidak terhiris belati rasa
pasti jiwa tidak merintih kerana sakitnya

tapi aku,
hanya seorang hamba..kepada Tuhannya
tapi aku,
hanya seorang manusia yang alpa
bila melihat BIASAN WARNA CINTA

ketika cinta bertasbih

2010-01-03T01:01:00.001+08:00

cinta adalah kekuatan
yg mampu mengubah duri dari mawar
mengubah cuka jadi anggur
mengubah sedih jadi riang
mengubah amarah jadi ramah
mengubah musibah jadi muhibbah
itulah cinta

sekalipun cinta telah ku uraikan dan kujelaskan panjang lebar
namun jika cinta kudatangi
aku jadi malu pada keteranganku sendiri

meskipun lidahku telah mampu menguraikan,
namun tanpa lidah, cinta ternyata lebih terang...
sementara pena begitu tergesa-gesa menuliskannya...

kata-kata pecah berkeping-keping...
begitu sampai kepada cinta...
dalam menguraikan cinta,
akal tebaring tak berdaya,
bagaikan keldai terbaring dalam lumpur...
cinta sendirilah yang menerangkan cinta
dan percintaan...

There are the days...

2010-01-03T00:57:00.000+08:00

here are days when i miss him...but i know his there,
there are days when i can feel him, his breath, keeping me warm,
there are days when i feel his strength...telling me that i can be so much more,
then there are days when i dont think about him..and those are easiest, calmest day of all..............

funny how i still remembers you
the way you walk
the way you talk
the way you smile
the way you laugh...

funny how i cant forget you
when you always by my side
when you make me smile
when you keep bugging me
when you call me in the middle of the night

funny how every single little things reminded me of you
when i heard your song
when i saw lilies blooming
when i eat your favourite ice cream
when i drink 'autumn' at KR

funny how i still crying in the middle of the night thinking of you...............

Jangan Mencintaiku

2009-10-19T17:13:00.002+08:00

Jangan Mencintaiku,
Andai kesempurnaan yang kau mimpikan,
Kerana diriku,
Terlalu banyak cacat dan celanya...

Jangan mencintaiku,
Andai keayuan wajah yang kau dambakan,
Kelak kau kecewa,
Dan aku lebih terluka...

Jangan mencintaiku,
Andai kelembutan yang kau cari,
Kerana tingkahku,
Tak mampu ku ubah lagi...

Jangan mencintaiku,
Kerana mencari pengganti,
Aku adalah diriku,
Tak mungkin dicanai uli...

Jangan mencintaiku,
Andai keenakan air tangan yang kau ingin rasai,
Kerana hidanganku,
Sekadar membuat perut terisi...

Jangan mencintaiku,
Pada sopan yang tak kumiliki,
Santun yang ada,
Bukan untuk dijual beli...

Dan...

Jangan mencintaiku,
Sekadar untuk menguji,
Kerana retak hatiku,
Tak mampu kuubat lagi..............

Suatu Masa Dahulu

2009-10-18T13:15:00.002+08:00

Pernah dulu,
Hati berjanji pada diri
untuk tidak membiarkan
cinta menyentuh
apalagi menghuni...

Sayang
dalam melewati usia remaja
langkah hati pincang tiba-tiba
mula membuka pintu untuk cinta
dek kabur pandangan mata
oleh kilau cahayanya..

Walau ego menegah
walau diri berulangkali menasihati
hati masih alpa
leka dibuai gemerlap kaca
hinggalah suatu hari
hati terhiris sedalamnya

Saat itulah
hati sedar akan kesilapan sendiri
terlalu mudah mempercayai janji
akhirnya
bukan hanya hati yang terhiris luka
ego tercalar derita
diri bersulam kecewa...

Bermula dari saat itu,
Tiada satu hari yang berlalu
tanpa sesal bertamu di hati
dan hari ini
hati ingin mengulangi janji
untuk tidak terluka lagi

Merindukanmu - D'Masiv

2009-09-22T23:09:00.000+08:00

Lagu yang pendek...tapi dalam maksudnya

Saat aku tertawa diatas semua
Saat aku menangisi kesedihanku

Aku ingin engkau selalu ada
Aku ingin engkau aku kenang

Reff:
Selama aku masih bisa bernafas
Masih sanggup berjalan kukan slalu memujamu
Meski ku tak tahu lagi engkau ada dimana
Dengarkanlah aku kumerindukanmu

Saat aku mencoba merubah segalanya
Saat aku meratapi kekalahanku

Aku ingin engkau selalu ada
Aku ingin engkau aku kenang

Antara hati dan hati-hati

2009-09-15T20:17:00.004+08:00

"You think too much" ujar seorang teman
"Cubalah bukak hati tu sikit, macam dah berpatah arang berkerat rotan je awk ni" seorang lagi menambah.
"if you didnt try, you'll never know" seorang rakan menasihati
"Semua orang tu berbeza, jangan jatuhkan hukuman pada org lain hanya sebab dia" tegas seorang rakan
" Open your heart, not only your eyes..and you will see the beauty of it" seorang sahabat cuba menyarankan

Bukan diri ini tidak pernah membuka hati, tapi apa yang diriku perolehi terlalu menyakitkan untuk diulang kembali. Kuakui, aku memang berfikir panjang, kerana aku bukan sahaja pernah melihat...bahkan pernah merasai sakitnya kekecewaan. Sakit perih semalam menyebabkan aku berhati - hati untuk membuka hati buat kedua kali. Bukan sesal yang kurasakan, tapi sakit kerana merasa diri diperbodohkan. Betapa diri ini alpa kerana percaya, betapa diri ini bodoh kerana tidak meragui.

Kuakui, setiap manusia iti berbeza, dan kerana perbezaan itulah aku jadi lebih berhati-hati, bimbang kelukaan kali ini lebih parah dari semalam. Risau, andai diri ini terbang terlalu tinggi, hingga tak mampu bertahan andai jatuh nanti.

Antara hati dan hati-hati, kusatukan keduanya agar hati tidak akan terluka lagi

HIdup ini

2009-09-15T19:02:00.001+08:00

hidup adalah sebuah perjalanan mencari kebahagiaan
sekaligus membuat kita kehilangan kebahagiaan yang lain

hidup adalah menginginkan kesempurnaan
kerana hidup adalah tidak mendapatkan semua yang kita inginkan

hidup adalah tentang pilihan
kita hidup dengan menetukan pilihan
atau tidak memiliki pilihan sama sekali

hidup adalah tentang mereka yang ada disekeliling kita
tidak kira biasa...atau istimewa

hidup adalah menghargai setiap apa yang kita ada
sementara kita masih memilikinya

hidup adalah menangisi kehilangan
kerana kita menghargai kehadiran...

kita hidup untuk hari esok...
berpandukan apa yang telah kita pelajari semalam...
hari ini, kita merancang untuk esok yang lebih sempurna...
hari ini, kita menilai adakah semalam baik untuk kita...

kita hidup dalam rangkaian memori, menari dalam ingatan, memberi erti dan kekuatan...
segala apa yang pernah kita lalui,
semua orang yang pernah hadir dalam diri,
harus dihargai...

kerana...
itulah yang menjadikan diri kita hari ini...

AIRMATA...(when time fail to heal all wounds)

2009-09-14T05:50:00.001+08:00

Airmata ini...
masih lagi setia menemani, walau berulangkali sudah kuhapus, walau seringkali kulupus. Airmata ini masih kekal mengalir, mengiringi perjalanan ku menghadapi kehidupan. Seringkali kukatakan pada diri untuk berhenti menangis, namun ia tak pernah mampu dihentikan. Sendu, sayu dan rindu yang terhimpun bukan sekadar sekelumit, malahan telah menggunung. Kasih yang kugalas bukan seringan kapas, seberat batu malah.

Kumengerti, dirimu tak pernah salah. Akulah yang salah kerana lupa mengukur harga diri, alpa melihat diri sendiri, lantas menyandarkan harapan pada yang tak sudi. Akulah yang salah kerana menganggap senyum itu untukku, tawa itu membahagiakanku dan jenaka itu menghiburkanku sedang ia sebenarnya hanya garis-garis warna dunia.

Pergilah, jauhkanlah dirimu dariku..kerana aku masih belum mampu untuk melupakanmu. Hati ini masih keliru akan warna sebenar rasa yang mengetuk pintu hatiku. Walau dirimu bukanlah insan pertama mengetuk pintu hatiku, namun kaulah yang pertama membuka pintu kasihku. Dan aku tahu, kau akan terus berada di situ, kerana aku tahu hatiku.

Pergilah, biarkan aku dengan hatiku. Cukuplah sekali aku lupa memandang kedalam diri, menilai siapa diriku ini, lantas kasih sayangku jatuh padamu. Luka yang tersimpan ini, masih lagi menjadi belati ynag mencincang hati. Cukuplah sekali aku diterbangkan harapan, akhirnya jatuh menjunam, tak sempat untuk kuberpaut.

p/s: maaf andai coretan ini mengganggu lenamu, kerana hanya kata dan lenggok bahasalah yang mampu meredakan walau tidak menghentikan tangis di hatiku.

Ingatlah Diriku

2009-07-23T00:02:00.001+08:00

Sejujurnya diriku tak ingin kehilanganmu
Aku masih sayang padamu
Namun bila dirimu tak lagi memerlukanku
Cukup sampai disini
Hingga kini bersama lagi

Reff:
Ingatkah diriku yang pernah
Ada disampingmu
Ada diwaktumu
Ada dihatimu
Kuingat dirimu yang pernah
Hadir disampingku
Temani waktuku
Temani hatiku

Sejujurnya diriku tak ingin kehilanganmu
Aku sangat sayang padamu
Namun entah mengapa perpisahan ini mencambukku
Semoga kita bersama lagi

Back to Reff:

Cinta adalah kenangan manisku bersama dirimu

tentang hidup

2009-06-28T00:20:00.000+08:00

hidup adalah sebuah perjalanan mencari kebahagiaan
sekaligus kehilangan kebahagiaan yang lain
hidup adalah tidak mendapatkan semua yang kita inginkan
hidup adalah menentukan pilihan
atau tidak memiliki pilihan sama sekali

kupu2
itulah mereka
dua perempuan yang sama istimewanya

kupu2 yang ini lembut
bahkan rapuh
tapi dia yang mempersatukan kami
dia merubah aku menjadi siapa aku sekarang
dia yang lebih memiliki isi

sementara kupu2 yang satu lagi menarik aku tinggi
cukup tinggi sehingga aku dapat berdiri tegak
dan yakin dengan keberadaanku

perbedaan yang membuat mereka saling melengkapi
melengkapi mereka sendiri
melengkap hidupku

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hidup adalah sebuah perjalanan mencari kebahagiaan
sekaligus membuat kita kehilangan kebahagiaan yang lain

hidup adalah menginginkan kesempurnaan
kerana hidup adalah tidak mendapatkan semua yang kita inginkan

hidup adalah tentang pilihan
kita hidup dengan menetukan pilihan
atau tidak memiliki pilihan sama sekali

hidup adalah tentang mereka yang ada disekeliling kita
tidak kira biasa...atau istimewa

hidup adalah menghargai setiap apa yang kita ada
sementara kita masih memilikinya

hidup adalah menangisi kehilangan
kerana kita menghargai kehadiran...

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kita hidup untuk hari esok...
berpandukan apa yang telah kita pelajari semalam...
hari ini, kita merancang untuk esok yang lebih sempurna...
hari ini, kita menilai adakah semalam baik untuk kita...

kita hidup dalam rangkaian memori, menari dalam ingatan, memberi erti dan kekuatan...
segala apa yang pernah kita lalui,
semua orang yang pernah hadir dalam diri,
harus dihargai...

setiap detik yang kita jalani
adalah penentu untuk hidup ini
kita tidak akan pernah tahu
siapa yang akan kita temui
apa yang bakal kita tempuhi

kita mungkin mampu merancang
membuat jangkaan
namun, kebetulan seringkali datang
tanpa pernah diundang
kita boleh meramal
apakah esok bumi bakal ditimpa hujan
namun,
kita tidak akan pernah pasti
apakah panas ini akan berpanjangan
atau rintik hujan bakal mendatang
kita juga tidak akan pernah tahu
apakah mendung itu,
membawa curahan rahmat
atau sekadar berlalu

kerana...
itulah yang menjadikan diri kita hari ini...

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Kenangan itu kadangkala teramat pahit untuk diredah,
tetapi ia terlalu manis untuk dikenang.
Hidup tak selalunya indah tapi yang indah itu tetap hidup dalam kenangan.
Andainya hadirnya cinta sekadar untuk mengecewakan,
lebih baik cinta itu tak pernah hadir.
Kecewa bercinta bukan bermakna dunia sudah berakhir.
Masa depan yang cerah berdasarkan pada masa lalu yang telah dilupakan.
Hidup ini indah jika kita tahu menghargainya...
Tapi ia amat menyakitkan andai kita melaluinya sambil lewa...

tidak kucari sempurna

2009-06-23T23:35:00.002+08:00

tidak kucari sempurna,
kerana kutahu hakikat kejadian manusia
tidak kudamba permata
kerana aku hanya kerlipan kaca

yang kucari,
adalah cahaya,
adalah bahagia,
dalam hati
dari jiwa

yang kudamba,
adalah hati yang tebuka
kerana salah , bukan untuk selamanya
kerana silap, bukan untuk dicerca

lantas pencarian itu menjadi semakin sukar,
kerana terlalu ramai yang tersalah erti...
maksud sebenar kata-kata

hidup

2009-06-23T23:11:00.002+08:00

Kenangan itu kadangkala teramat pahit untuk diredah, tetapi ia terlalu manis untuk dikenang.
Hidup tak selalunya indah tapi yang indah itu tetap hidup dalam kenangan.
Andainya hadirnya cinta sekadar untuk mengecewakan, lebih baik cinta itu tak pernah hadir.
Kecewa bercinta bukan bermakna dunia sudah berakhir.
Masa depan yang cerah berdasarkan pada masa lalu yang telah dilupakan.
Hidup ini indah jika kita tahu menghargainya...
Tapi ia amat menyakitkan andai kita melaluinya sambil lewa...

hidup adalah sebuah perjalanan mencari kebahagiaan
sekaligus membuat kita kehilangan kebahagiaan yang lain

hidup adalah menginginkan kesempurnaan
kerana hidup adalah tidak mendapatkan semua yang kita inginkan

hidup adalah tentang pilihan
kita hidup dengan menetukan pilihan
atau tidak memiliki pilihan sama sekali

hidup adalah tentang mereka yang ada disekeliling kita
tidak kira biasa...atau istimewa

hidup adalah menghargai setiap apa yang kita ada
sementara kita masih memilikinya

hidup adalah menangisi kehilangan
kerana kita menghargai kehadiran...

kita hidup untuk hari esok...
berpandukan apa yang telah kita pelajari semalam...
hari ini, kita merancang untuk esok yang lebih sempurna...
hari ini, kita menilai adakah semalam baik untuk kita...

kita hidup dalam rangkaian memori, menari dalam ingatan, memberi erti dan kekuatan...
segala apa yang pernah kita lalui,
semua orang yang pernah hadir dalam diri,
harus dihargai...

kerana...
itulah yang menjadikan diri kita hari ini...

What Girls Feel

2009-04-23T17:24:00.002+08:00

When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't
crying, it means she's crying in her heart.
When she ignores you after you've done
something wrong, it's best to give her some
time to cool down before touching her heart
with an apology.
A girl can't find anything to hate about the
guy she loves (which is why it is so hard for
her to 'get over him' after the relationship' s
over.)
If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on
her mind every minute of the day, even though
she flirts with other guys.
When the guy she likes smiles and stares
deep into her eyes, she will melt.
A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually
not sure how to react to them.
When a particular guy flirts with a girl very
often, a girl would start thinking the guy likes
her. So if you treat a girl just as a friend, go
easy on the smiles and stare ok?
If you don't like a girl who likes you, break
it to her gently.
If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject
her, leave her alone for a while. If you still
treat her as a friend, talk to her.
Girls enjoy talking about what they feel.
Music, poetry, drawings and writing are ways of
expressing themselves (which explains why
most girls like writing journals).
Never tell a girl that she is useless in
anyway.
Being too serious can turn a girl off.
When the guy she likes calls her for the
first time, the girl may act uninterested during
the call. But as soon as the phone is back on
the hook, she will whoop with joy and
immediately start telephoning her friends to
spread the news.
A smile means a lot to a girl.
If you like a girl, try making friends with her
first. Let her get to know you.
If a girl says she can't go out with you
because she has to study, leave.
But if she still calls you or expect a call from
you, stay.
Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.
Hearing the words "I love you" is a great
reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.
After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll
wonder why she never noticed him before.
If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl,
read romance stories.
When class pictures come out, a girl would
first check who is standing next to her crush
before actually looking at herself.
A girl's ex-crush will always be in her
memory, but the guy she loves now stays in
her heart.
Girls love having fun!
A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.
A girl's best friends usually know best what
she is feeling and going through.
Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to
them just to get close to their 'prettier' friend.
Love means devotion, caring and
happiness
to a girl, in that order.
Some girls care about looks, some care
about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will
love and care for them.
Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.

Only Love-Trademark

2009-04-22T00:27:00.002+08:00

2 a.m. and the rain is falling
Here we are at the crossroads once again
You're telling me you're so confused
You can't make up your mind
Is this meant to be
You're asking me
Chorus
But only love can say - try again or walk away
But I believe for you and me
The sun will shine one day
So I'll just play my part
And pray you'll have a change of heart
But I can't make you see it through
That's something only love can do

In your arms as the dawn is breaking
Face to face and a thousand miles apart
I've tried my best to make you see
There's hope beyond the pain
If we give enough, if we learn to trust

[Chorus]

I know if I could find the words
To touch you deep inside
You'd give our dream just one more chance
Don't let this be our last good-bye

[Chorus]
That's something only love can do

Dari bahasa

2009-04-05T21:30:00.002+08:00

dari satu huruf
kubinakan kata
agar ia punya makna

dari satu kata
kubinakan ayat
agar ia mampu memberi makna

dari bahasa
kepelajari santun
kukenali diam
kuhargai keriuhan

dari bahasa
kusedar harga suara
ku mengerti segala rasa

dari bahasa
ku kenal cita-cita
kuhargai dunia...

Quotes: Love

2009-04-05T17:46:00.000+08:00

Albert Einstein:

Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.

Albert Einstein:

How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love?

Albert Schweitzer:

Thought cannot avoid the ethical or reverence and love for all life. It will abandon the old confined systems of ethics and be forced to recognize the ethics that knows no bounds. But on the other hand, those who believe in love for all creation must realize clearly the difficulties involved in the problem of a boundless ethic and must be resolved not to veil from [humankind] the conflicts which this ethic will involve [us], but allow [us] really to experience them. To think out in every implication the ethic of love for all creation -- this is the difficult task which confronts our age.â€

Alfred Adler:

We only regard those unions as real examples of love and real marriages in which a fixed and unalterable decision has been taken. If men or women contemplate an escape, they do not collect all their powers for the task. In none of the serious and important tasks of life do we arrange such a "getaway." We cannot love and be limited.

Alfred Tennyson:

I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.

Allan K. Chalmers:

The Grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.

Ambrose Bierce:

Love: a temporary insanity, curable by marriage.

Amy Bloom:

Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle.

Amy Tan:

I am like a falling star who has finally found her place next to another in a lovely constellation, where we will sparkle in the heavens forever.

Anais Nin:

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.

Ann Landers:

If you have love in your life it can make up for a great many things you lack. If you don't have it, no matter what else there is, it's not enough.

Anne Morrow Lindbergh:

Him that I love, I wish to be free -- even from me.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery:

Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.

Arthur Rubinstein:

Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back.

Barbara De Angelis:

Love is a choice you make from moment to moment.

Barbara De Angelis:

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.

Bayard Rustin:

When I say I love Eastland, it sounds preposterous -- a man who brutalizes people. But you love him or you wouldn't be here. You're going to Mississippi to create social change -- and you love Eastland in your desire to create conditions which will redeem his children. Loving your enemy is manifest in putting your arms not around the man but around the social situation, to take power from those who misuse it -- at which point they can become human too.

Bayard Taylor:

I love thee, I love but thee
With a love that shall not die
Till the sun grows cold,
And the stars grow old...

Bertrand Russell:

The good life is inspired by love and guided by knowledge.

Bertrand Russell:

Three passions have governed my life:
The longings for love, the search for knowledge,
And unbearable pity for the suffering of [humankind].

Love brings ecstasy and relieves loneliness.
In the union of love I have seen
In a mystic miniature the prefiguring vision
Of the heavens that saints and poets have imagined.

With equal passion I have sought knowledge.
I have wished to understand the hearts of [people].
I have wished to know why the stars shine.

Love and knowledge led upwards to the heavens,
But always pity brought me back to earth;
Cries of pain reverberated in my heart
Of children in famine, of victims tortured
And of old people left helpless.
I long to alleviate the evil, but I cannot,
And I too suffer.

This has been my life; I found it worth living.

adapted

Bertrand Russell:

A sense of duty is useful in work, but offensive in personal relations. People wish to be liked, not be endured with patient resignation.

Bible:

Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
I Corinthians 13:4-8

Blaise Pascal:

The heart has its reasons which reason knows not of.

C.S. Lewis:

Why love if losing hurts so much? We love to know that we are not alone.

Carl Jung:

Where love rules, there is no will to power; and where power predominates, there love is lacking. The one is the shadow of the other.

Carter Heyward:

Love, like truth and beauty, is concrete. Love is not fundamentally a sweet feeling; not, at heart, a matter of sentiment, attachment, or being "drawn toward." Love is active, effective, a matter of making reciprocal and mutually beneficial relation with one's friends and enemies.

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Charles Augustin Sainte-Beuve:

Tell me who admires and loves you,
And I will tell you who you are.

Chaucer:

For there is one thing I can safely say: that those bound by love must obey each other if they are to keep company long. Love will not be constrained by mastery; when mastery comes, the God of love at once beats his wings, and farewell -- he is gone. Love is a thing as free as any spirit; women naturally desire liberty, and not to be constrained like slaves; and so do men, if I shall tell the truth.

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Dale Evans:

Every time we love, every time we give, it's Christmas.

Denis Waitley:

Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace and gratitude.

Don Byas:

You call it madness, but I call it love.

E.M. Forster:

Only connect! That was the whole of her sermon. Only connect the prose and the passion, and both will be exalted, and human love will be seen at its height. Live in fragments no longer. Only connect...

Ecclesiastes:

For everything there is a season,
And a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to seek, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to throw away;
A time to tear, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate,
A time for war, and a time for peace.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

Edna St. Vincent Millay:

Life is a quest and love a quarrel ...

Edna St. Vincent Millay:

I love humanity but I hate people.

Elbert Hubbard:

The love we give away is the only love we keep.

Elie Wiesel:

The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference.
The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference.
And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.

(Oct. 1986)

Elie Wiesel:

Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.

Elizabeth Barret Browning:

Whoso loves, believes the impossible.

Ella Wheeler Wilcox:

All love that has not friendship for its base,
Is like a mansion built upon the sand.

Emily Dickinson:

That Love is all there is,
Is all we know of Love.

Emily Dickinson:

Love—is anterior to Life—
Posterior—to Death—
Initial of Creation, and
The Exponent of Earth—

Emily Dickinson:

Who has not found the heaven below
Will fail of it above.
God's residence is next to min,
His furniture is love.

Emma Goldman:

Free love? As if love is anything but free! Man has bought brains, but all the millions in the world have failed to buy love. Man has subdued bodies, but all the power on earth has been unable to subdue love. Man has conquered whole nations, but all his armies could not conquer love. Man has chained and fettered the spirit, but he has been utterly helpless before love. High on a throne, with all the splendor and pomp his gold can command, man is yet poor and desolate, if love passes him by. And if it stays, the poorest hovel is radiant with warmth, with life and color. Thus love has the magic power to make of a beggar a king. Yes, love is free; it can dwell in no other atmosphere.

Erich Fromm:

Infantile love follows the principle: "I love because I am loved."
Mature love follows the principle: "I am loved because I love."
Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."
Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."

Ernest Becker:

When we understand that man is the only animal who must create meaning, who must open a wedge into neutral nature, we already understand the essence of love. Love is the problem of an animal who must find life, create a dialogue with nature in order to experience his own being.

Euripides:

He is not a lover who does not love forever.

Felix Adler:

Love is the expansion of two natures in such fashion that each include the other, each is enriched by the other.

Francis David:

We need not think alike to love alike.

Franklin P. Jones:

Love doesn't make the world go 'round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

Friedrich Nietzsche:

It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

Friedrich Nietzsche:

The demand to be loved is the greatest of all arrogant presumptions.

Georg C. Lichtenberg:

Love is blind, but marriage restores its sight.

George Jean Nathan:

Love is an emotion experienced by the many and enjoyed by the few.

George MacDonald:

To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.

George Sand:

There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.

George Santayana:

Love is only half the illusion; the lover, but not his love, is deceived.

The Life of Reason, 1905-1906

Goethe:

To be loved for what one is, is the greatest exception. The great majority love in others only what they lend him, their own selves, their version of him.

H. L. Mencken:

To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia -- to mistake an ordinary young man for a Greek god or an ordinary young woman for a goddess.

Prejudices, 1919

HH the Dalai Lama:

Responsibility does not only lie with the leaders of our countries or with those who have been appointed or elected to do a particular job. It lies with each of us individually. Peace, for example, starts within each one of us. When we have inner peace, we can be at peace with those around us.

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HH the Dalai Lama:

When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace.

HH the Dalai Lama:

We can live without religion and meditation, but we cannot survive without human affection.

Han Suyin [Elizabeth Comber]:

...love from one being to another can only be that two solitudes come nearer, recognize and protect and comfort each other.

b. 1917 Chinese writer and physician

Hazrat Inayat Khan:

The sage said, "The best thing is not to hate anyone, only to love. That is the only way out of it. As soon as you have forgiven those whom you hate, you have gotten rid of them. Then you have no reason to hate them; you just forget.

Spiritual Dimensions of Psychology

Helen Keller:

Have you ever been at sea in a dense fog, when it seemed as if a tangible white darkness shut you in and the great ship, tense and anxious, groped her way toward the shore with plummet and sounding-line, and you waited with beating heart for something to happen? I was like that ship before my education began, only I was without compass or sounding line, and no way of knowing how near the harbor was. "Light! Give me light!" was the wordless cry of my soul, and the light of love shone on me in that very hour.

Henri Nouwen:

Your body needs to be held and to hold, to be touched and to touch. None of these needs is to be despised, denied, or repressed. But you have to keep searching for your body's deeper need, the need for genuine love. Every time you are able to go beyond the body's superficial desires for love, you are bringing your body home and moving toward integration and unity.

Henry David Thoreau:

Love must be as much a light as it is a flame.

Henry David Thoreau:

There is no remedy for love but to love more.

Henry Miller:

The real enemy can always be met and conquered, or won over. Real antagonism is based on love, a love which has not recognized itself.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow:

If I am not worth the wooing, I am surely not worth the winning.

Herman Hesse:

If I know what love is, it is because of you.

Hermann Hesse:

You know quite well, deep within you, that there is only a single magic, a single power, a single salvation...and that is called loving. Well, then, love your suffering. Do not resist it, do not flee from it. It is your aversion that hurts, nothing else.

Hobbes (of Calvin and ...):

I think we dream so we don't have to be apart so long. If we're in each others dreams, we can be together all the time.

Houssaye:

Tell me whom you love and I will tell you who you are.

Ingrid Bergman:

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.

Iris Murdock:

We can only learn to love by loving.

Isha McKenzie-Mavinga:

On reflection, one of the things I needed to learn was to allow myself to be loved.

James Baldwin:

The face of a lover is an unknown, precisely because it is invested with so much of oneself. It is a mystery, containing, like all mysteries, the possibility of torment.

Another Country, 1962

James D. Bryden:

Love does not die easily. It is a living thing. It thrives in the face of all of life's hazards, save one -- neglect.

James Thurber and E.B. White:

Love is the strange bewilderment which overtakes one person on account of another person.

Jane Austen:

Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love.

Jane Austen:

One does not love a place the less for having suffered in it unless it has all been suffering, nothing but suffering.

Jean Baptiste Henry Lacordaire:

We are the leaves of one branch, the drops of one sea, the flowers of one garden.

Jean Goss:

All ideologies end up killing people. If you separate love from nonviolence you turn nonviolence into an ideology, a gimmick. Structures that are not inhabited by justice and love have no liberating or reconciling force, and are never sources of life.

Jeanne Moreau:

Age does not protect you from love, but love to some extent protects you from age.

Jessamyn West:

A religious awakening which does not awaken the sleeper to love has roused him in vain.

The Quaker Reader, 1962

Jimi Hendrix:

When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace.

Joan Vinge:

Indifference is the strongest force in the universe. It makes everything it touches meaningless. Love and hate don't stand a chance against it.

The Snow Queen

John Lennon:

Love is a promise, love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear.

Jonathan Swift:

We have just enough religion to make us hate, but not enough to make us love one another.

Karl Menninger:

Love cures people -- both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.

W.H. Murray

Katharine Hepburn:

Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.

Lily Tomlin:

If love is the answer, could you rephrase the question?

Lisa Hoffman:

Love is like pi - natural, irrational, and very important.

M. Scott Peck:

Although the act of nurturing another's spiritual growth has the effect of nurturing one's own, a major characteristic of genuine love is that the distinction between oneself and the other is always maintained and preserved.

Madeleine de Scudery:

Love makes mutes of those who habitually speak most fluently.

Marc Estrin:

Kindness trumps greed: it asks for sharing. Kindness trumps fear: it calls forth gratefulness and love. Kindness trumps even stupidity, for with sharing and love, one learns.

Marcel Proust:

In reality, in love there is a permanent suffering which joy neutralizes, renders virtual, delays, but which can at any moment become what it would have become long earlier if one had not obtained what one wanted, atrocious.

Margaret Anderson:

In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love you want the other person.

Margaret Guenther:

[W]e all need friends with whom we can speak of our deepest concerns, and who do not fear to speak the truth in love to us.

Mark Twain:

Love seems the swiftest, but it is the slowest of all growths. No man or woman really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century.

Mark Twain:

Love seems the swiftest, but it is the slowest of all growths. No man or woman really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century.

Mark Twain:

After all these years, I see that I was mistaken about Eve in the beginning; it is better to live outside the Garden with her than inside it without her.

Adam, in Adam's Diary

Martin Luther King, Jr.:

Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into friend.

Martin Luther King, jr.:

At the center of nonviolence stands the principle of love.

Martin Luther King, jr.:

I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.

Martin Luther King, jr.:

We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.

Mary Oliver:

To live in this world you must be able to do three things: to love what is mortal; to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it; and, when the time comes to let it go, to let it go. Blackwater Woods

Mary Parrish:

Love vanquishes time. To lovers, a moment can be eternity, eternity can be the tick of a clock.

Mary S. Calderone:

I truly feel that there are as many ways of loving as there are people in the world and as there are days in the life of those people.

Matthew Arnold:

Is it so small a thing
To have enjoy'd the sun,
To have lived light in the spring,
To have loved, to have thought, to have done...

Mitsugi Saotome:

If you were all alone in the universe with no one to talk to, no one with which to share the beauty of the stars, to laugh with, to touch, what would be your purpose in life? It is other life, it is love, which gives your life meaning. This is harmony. We must discover the joy of each other, the joy of challenge, the joy of growth.

Mohandas K. Gandhi:

Forgiveness is choosing to love. It is the first skill of self-giving love.

Mohandas K. Gandhi:

Hatred ever kills, love never dies. Such is the vast difference between the two. What is obtained by love is retained for all time. What is obtained by hatred proves a burden in reality for it increases hatred.

Mohandas K. Gandhi:

Where there is love there is life.

Mohandas K. Gandhi:

Whether humanity will consciously follow the law of love, I do not know. But that need not disturb me. The law will work just as the law of gravitation works, whether we accept it or not. The person who discovered the law of love was a far greater scientist than any of our modern scientists. Only our explorations have not gone far enough and so it is not possible for everyone to see all its workings.

Molleen Matsumura:

Love is like a campfire: It may be sparked quickly, and at first the kindling throws out a lot of heat, but it burns out quickly. For long lasting, steady warmth (with delightful bursts of intense heat from time to time), you must carefully tend the fire. (2007)

Molleen Matsumura:

Love is more than just a feeling: it's a process requiring continual attention. Loving well takes laughter, loyalty, and wanting more to be able to say, "I understand" than to hear, "You're right." (1999)

Molly Haskell:

But one of the attributes of love, like art, is to bring harmony and order out of chaos, to introduce meaning and affect where before there was none, to give rhythmic variations, highs and lows to a landscape that was previously flat.

Mother Teresa:

The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.

Mother Teresa:

Let us not be satisfied with just giving money. Money is not enough, money can be got, but they need your hearts to love them. So, spread your love everywhere you go.

Nathaniel Hawthorne:

It is to the credit of human nature, that, except where its selfishness is brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates. Hatred, by a gradual and quiet process, will even be transformed to love, unless the change be impeded by a continually new irritation of the original feeling of hostility.

from The Scarlet Letter

Norman Lindsay:

The best love affairs are those we never had.

Oscar Hammerstein, II:

Do you love me because I'm beautiful,
or am I am beautiful because you love me?

Oscar Wilde:

Each time that one loves is the only time one has ever loved. Difference of object does not alter singleness of passion. It merely intensifies it. We can have but one great experience at best, and the secret of life is to reproduce that experience as often as possible.

The Picture of Dorian Gray

Paul Tillich:

The first duty of love is to listen.

Pearl Bailey:

What the world really needs is more love and less paperwork.

Pearl S. Buck:

A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love.

Pearl S. Buck:

The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.

Pearl S. Buck:

I love people. I love my family, my children . . . but inside myself is a place where I live all alone and that's where you renew your springs that never dry up.

Rainer Maria Rilke:

For one human being to love another: that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks; the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

Religion is to do right. It is to love, it is to serve, it is to think, it is to be humble.

Reinhold Niebuhr:

Nothing worth doing is completed in our lifetime,
Therefore, we are saved by hope.
Nothing true or beautiful or good makes complete sense in any immediate context of history;
Therefore, we are saved by faith.
Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone.
Therefore, we are saved by love.
No virtuous act is quite a virtuous from the standpoint of our friend or foe as from our own;
Therefore, we are saved by the final form of love which is forgiveness.

Robert Frost:

Earth's the right place for love. I don't know where it's likely to go better.

Birches

Robert Fulghum:

I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death.

Robert G. Ingersoll:

Love is the only bow on life's dark cloud.
It is the Morning and the Evening Star.
It shines upon the cradle of the babe,
and sheds its radiance upon the quiet tomb.
It is the mother of Art,
inspirer of poet, patriot, and philosopher.
It is the air and light of every heart, builder of every home,
kindler of every fire on every hearth.
It was the first to dream of immortality.
It fills the world with melody,
for Music is the voice of Love.
Love is the magician, the enchanter,
that changes worthless things to joy,
and makes right royal kings and queens of common clay.
It is the perfume of the wondrous flower -- the heart
and without that sacred passion, that divine swoon,
we are less than beasts;
but with it, earth is heaven
and we are gods.

Robert Heinlein:

Love is a condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.

Roger de Bussy-Rabutin:

Absence is to love as wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and kindles the great.

Rose Walker:

Have you even been in love? Horrible, isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...

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Roy Croft:

I love you
Not only for what you are
But for what I am
When I am with you

Love (first stanza)

Rumi:

Let the lover be disgraceful, crazy, absent-minded.
Someone sober will worry about events going badly.
Let the lover be.

Rumi:

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

Rumi:

Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love.

Rumi:

Come out of the circle of time
And into the circle of love.

Saint Francis de Sales:

You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; and just so, you learn to love by loving. All those who think to learn in any other way deceive themselves.

Samuel Butler:

Perhaps; but is it not Tennyson who has said: "'Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have lost at all"? in The Way of All Flesh

Sharon Welch:

Resistance to oppression is often based on a love that leads us to value ourselves, and leads us to hope for more
than the established cultural system is willing to grant ... such love is far more energizing than guilt, duty, or self-sacrifice. Love for others leads us to accept accountability (in contrast to feeling guilt) and motivates our search for ways to end our complicity with structures of oppression. Solidarity does not require self-sacrifice, but an enlargement of the self to include community with others. [The Feminist Ethic of Risk]

Simone Weil:

The love of our neighbor in all its fullness simply means being able to say, "What are you going through?"

Sir Arthur Pinero:

Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young.

Song of Solomon:

This is my beloved and this is my friend.

Spanish proverb:

Where there is love, there is pain.

St. Augustine:

Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.

Søren Kierkegaard:

Love does not alter the beloved, it alters itself.

Thomas Merton:

It is in deep solitude that I find the gentleness with which I can truly love my brothers. The more solitary I am the more affection I have for them…. Solitude and silence teach me to love my brothers for what they are, not for what they say.

Tom Robbins:

The bottom line is that (a) people are never perfect, but love can be, (b) that is the one and only way that the mediocre and vile can be transformed, and (c) doing that makes it that. We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.

Still Life With Woodpecker

Truman Capote:

The true beloveds of this world are in their lover's eyes lilacs opening, ship lights, school bells, a landscape, remembered conversations, friends, a child's Sunday, lost voices, one's favorite suit, autumn and all seasons, memory, yes, it being the earth and water of existence, memory.

Other Voices, Other Rooms, 1948

Unknown:

Love is blind, but friendship closes its eyes.

Ursula K. LeGuin:

Love doesn't just sit there like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.

Ursula LeGuin:

Love doesn't sit there like a stone. It has to made like bread; remade all the time, made new.

Victor Frankl:

A man who becomes conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the "why" for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any "how."

Victor Hugo:

Life is the flower for which love is the honey.

W.H. Murray:

...the more the soul knows, the more she loves, and loving much, she tastes much.

from the journal of his Himalayan expedition

Washington Irving:

Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.

Willa Cather:

Where there is great love, there are always miracles.

Willa Cather:

Old men are like that, you know. It makes them feel important to think they are in love with somebody.

William Arthur Ward:

Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you. Love me and I may be forced to love you.

William E. Gladstone :

We look forward to the time when the Power of Love will replace the Love of Power. Then will our world know the blessings of peace.

William Shakespeare:

Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting.

William Shakespeare:

Love all, trust a few.

William Shakespeare:

My bounty is as boundless as the sea,
My love as deep; the more I give to thee,
The more I have, for both are infinite.

"Romeo and Juliet"

William Sloane Coffin:

The world is too dangerous for anything but truth and too small for anything but love.

William Sloane Coffin, Jr.:

Love measures our stature: the more we love, the bigger we are. There is no smaller package in all the world than that of a man all wrapped up in himself.

William Wordsworth:

The little unremembered acts of kindness and love are the best parts of a person's life.

Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart:

Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love, love, that is the soul of genius.

Zelda Fitzgerald:

Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much a heart can hold.

Zora Neale Hurston:

Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place.

Zora Neale Hurston:

Love, I find, is like singing. Everybody can do enough to satisfy themselves, though it may not impress the neighbors as being very much.

Quotes: Friendship

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Abraham Lincoln:

Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?

Albert Camus:

Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves.

Alice Walker:

No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.

Anaïs Nin:

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.

Ann Richards:

I've always said that in politics, your enemies can't hurt you, but your friends will kill you.

Anna Garlin Spencer:

The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and to all their circle of acquaintance and of activity; but for this type of friendship both a rare man and a rare woman are needed. Perhaps it should be added that either the man or the woman thus deeply bound in lifelong friendship who seeks marriage must find a still rarer man or woman to wed, to make such a three cornered comradeship a permanent success.

Anne Morrow Lindbergh:

If one is estranged from oneself, then one is estranged from others too. If one is out of touch with oneself, then one cannot touch others.

Aristotle:

What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.

Audre Lorde:

The sharing of joy, whether physical, emotional, psychic, or intellectual, forms a bridge between the sharers which can be the basis for understanding much of what is not shared between them, and lessens the threat of their difference.

Ben Jonson:

True friendship consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and value.

Bertrand Russell:

A sense of duty is useful in work, but offensive in personal relations. People wish to be liked, not be endured with patient resignation.

Blaise Pascal:

Few friendships would survive if each one knew what his friend says of him behind his back.

C.S. Lewis:

Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: "What! You, too? Thought I was the only one."

Charlie Daniels:

A brief candle; both ends burning
An endless mile; a bus wheel turning
A friend to share the lonesome times
A handshake and a sip of wine
So say it loud and let it ring
We are all a part of everything
The future, present and the past
Fly on proud bird
You're free at last.

written en route to the funeral for his friend, Ronnie Van Zant of the band, Lynyrd Skynyrd.

Cicero:

It is virtue, virtue, which both creates and preserves friendship. On it depends harmony of interest, permanence, fidelity.

Confucius:

Silence is the true friend that never betrays.

Cornelia Otis Skinner:

To cement a new friendship, especially between foreigners or persons of a different social world, a spark with which both were secretly charged must fly from person to person, and cut across the accidents of place and time.

The Ape in Me, 1959

David Hume:

Truth springs from argument amongst friends.

Deng Ming-Dao:

Those truly linked don't need correspondence. When they meet again after many years apart, Their friendship is as true as ever.

Don Marquis:

There is nothing we like to see so much as the gleam of pleasure in a person's eye when he feels that we have sympathized with him, understood him. At these moments something fine and spiritual passes between two friends. These are the moments worth living.

E. B. White:

You have been my friend. That in itself is a tremendous thing. I wove my webs for you because I liked you. After all, what's a life, anyway? We're born, we live a little while, we die. A spider's life can't help being something of a mess, with all this trapping and eating flies. By helping you, perhaps I was trying to lift up my life a trifle. Heaven knows anyone's life can stand a little of that.

Charlotte, "Charlotte's Web"

E.M. Forster:

One must be fond of people and trust them if one is not to make a mess of life.

E.R. Bulwer-Lytton:

It is difficult to say who do you the most mischief: enemies with the worst intentions or friends with the best.

Ecclesiasticus 6:14:

A faithful friend is a strong defense: and he that hath found such an one hath found a treasure.

Edgar Watson Howe:

When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it.

Eleanor Roosevelt:

Friendship with oneself is all important because without it one cannot be friends with anybody else in the world.

Elie Wiesel:

Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing.

Elizabeth Foley:

The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart.

Ella Wheeler Wilcox:

All love that has not friendship for its base,
Is like a mansion built upon the sand.

Emily Dickinson:

I'm Nobody! Who are you?
Are you -- Nobody -- too?
Then there's a pair of us?
Don't tell! they'd advertise -- you know!

Emily Dickinson:

Bereavement in their death to feel
Whom We have never seen --
A Vital Kinsmanship import
Our Soul and theirs -- between --

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Epicurus:

It is not so much our friends' help that helps us as the confident knowledge that they will help us.

3rd century BCE

Francis David:

We need not think alike to love alike.

Friedrich Nietzsche:

It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

George Eliot:

Perhaps the most delightful friendships are those in which there is much agreement, much disputation, and yet more personal liking.

George Eliot:

What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other?

George Santayana:

Friends are generally of the same sex, for when men and women agree, it is only in the conclusions; their reasons are always different.

Persons and Places: The Middle Span, 1945

George Santayana:

The loneliest woman in the world is a woman without a close woman friend.

The Life of Reason, 1905-1906

George Washington:

Friendship is a plant of slow growth and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.

Gore Vidal:

Whenever a friend succeeds, a little something in me dies.

HH the Dalai Lama:

We can live without religion and meditation, but we cannot survive without human affection.

Henri Nouwen:

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.

Henry David Thoreau:

True friendship can afford true knowledge. It does not depend on darkness and ignorance.

Henry David Thoreau:

The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?

Henry Ward Beecher:

It is one of the severest tests of friendship to tell your friend his faults. So to love a man that you cannot bear to see a stain upon him, and to speak painful truth through loving words, that is friendship.

Indira Gandhi:

You can't shake hands with a clenched fist.

It's a Wonderful Life:

Remember, no man is a failure who has friends.

Jane Austen:

Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love.

Jane Austen:

Business, you know, may bring money, but friendship hardly ever does.

Jessamyn West:

Writing is a solitary occupation. Family, friends, and society are the natural enemies of the writer. He must be alone, uninterrupted, and slightly savage if he is to sustain and complete an undertaking.

Katherine Mansfield:

I always felt that the great high privilege, relief and comfort of friendship was that one had to explain nothing.

La Rochefoucauld:

A true friend is the most precious of all possessions and the one we take the least thought about acquiring.

Louisa May Alcott:

"Stay" is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary.

Marcel Proust:

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.

Margaret Guenther:

[W]e all need friends with whom we can speak of our deepest concerns, and who do not fear to speak the truth in love to us.

Mark Twain:

The holy passion of friendship is of so sweet and steady and loyal and enduring a nature that it will last through a whole lifetime, if not asked to lend money.

Mark Twain:

The holy passion of friendship is so sweet and steady and loyal and enduring in nature that it will last through a whole lifetime, if not asked to lend money.

Mark Twain:

Good friends, good books and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.

Marlene Dietrich:

It's the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.

Martin Luther King, Jr.:

Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into friend.

Martin Luther King, jr.:

In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends

May Sarton:

Though friendship is not quick to burn,
It is explosive stuff.

Maya Angelou:

Alone, all alone
Nobody, but nobody
Can make it out here alone.

Mohandas K. Gandhi:

It is easy enough to be friendly to one's friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion. The other is mere business.

Norman Douglas:

To find a friend one must close one eye; To keep him, two.

Oscar Levant:

I have no trouble with my enemies. But my goddam friends,...they are the ones that keep me walking the floor nights.

Rabindranath Tagore:

Depth of friendship does not depend on length of acquaintance.

Rachel Carson:

If a child is to keep alive his inborn sense of wonder, he needs the companionship of at least one adult who can share it, rediscovering with him the joy, excitement and mystery of the world we live in.

Rachel Naomi Remen:

The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

I awoke this morning with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

Friendship should be surrounded with ceremonies and respects, and not crushed into corners. Friendship requires more time than poor busy men can usually command.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

The only way to have a friend is to be one.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

The ornament of a house is the friends who frequent it.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare, And he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:

A friend is one before whom I may think aloud.

Ralph Waldo Emerson, adapted:

The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship.

Robert Frost:

When a friend calls to me from the road
And slows his horse to a meaning walk,
I don't stand still and look around
On all the hills I haven't hoed,
And shout from where I am, What is it?
No, not as there is a time to talk.
I thrust my hoe in the mellow ground,
Blade-end up and five feet tall,
And plod: I go up to the stone wall
For a friendly visit.

Robert Louis Stevenson:

We are all travelers in the wilderness of this world, and the best we can find in our travels is an honest friend.

Robert Louis Stevenson:

We are all travelers in the wilderness of the world, and the best that we can find in our travels is an honest friend.

Robert McAfee Brown:

How does one keep from "growing old inside"? Surely only in community. The only way to make friends with time is to stay friends with people…. Taking community seriously not only gives us the companionship we need, it also relieves us of the notion that we are indispensable.

Rollo May:

There is an energy field between humans. And, when we reach out in passion, it is met with an answering passion and changes the relationship forever.

Samuel Coleridge:

Friendship is a sheltering tree.

Samuel Johnson:

There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity.

Samuel Johnson:

Always set high value on spontaneous kindness. He whose inclination prompts him to cultivate your friendship of his own accord will love you more than one whom you have been at pains to attach to you.

Samuel Taylor Coleridge:

Friendship is a sheltering tree.

Sarah Orne Jewett:

Yes'm, old friends is always best, 'less you can catch a new one that's fit to make an old one out of.

Seneca:

Consult your friend on all things, especially on those which respect yourself. His counsel may then be useful where your own self-love might impair your judgment.

Shel Silverstein:

Friendship
I've discovered a way to stay friends forever --

There's really nothing to it.

I simply tell you what to do

And you do it!

Shusha Guppy:

The verb "to love" in Persian is "to have a friend." "I love you" translated literally is "I have you as a friend," and "I don't like you" simply means "I don't have you as a friend."

Simone Weil:

The love of our neighbor in all its fullness simply means being able to say, "What are you going through?"

Simone Weil:

Do not allow yourself to be imprisoned by any affection. Keep your solitude. The day, if it ever comes, when you are given true affection there will be no opposition between interior solitude and friendship, quite the reverse. It is even by this infallible sign that you will recognize it.

Sir Francis Bacon:

There is little friendship in the world, and least of all between equals.

Sir Francis Bacon:

We read that we ought to forgive our enemies; but we do not read that we ought to forgive our friends.

Song of Solomon:

This is my beloved and this is my friend.

Thomas Jefferson:

But friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life; and thanks to a benevolent arrangement of things, the greater part of life is sunshine.

Toni Morrison:

I'm a controversial figure. My friends either dislike me or hate me.

speech, Sarah Lawrence College, Bronxville, New York, 1978

Unknown:

Friends come and go, but enemies accumulate.

Unknown:

Love is blind, but friendship closes its eyes.

W. Somerset Maugham:

It's no good trying to keep up old friendships. It's painful for both sides. The fact is, one grows out of people, and the only thing is to face it.

Warren G. Harding:

Only solitary men know the full joys of friendship. Others have their family; but to a solitary and an exile his friends are everything.

William Blake:

The bird a nest
the spider a web
the human friendship.

William Blake:

It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.

Zora Neale Hurston:

It seems to me that trying to live without friends is like milking a bear to get cream for your morning coffee. It is a whole lot of trouble, and then not worth much after you get it.

Quotes: Hope

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Allan K. Chalmers:

The Grand essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery:

If you want to build a ship, don't herd people together to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea.

Arundhati Roy:

Not only is another world possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing.

Barack Obama:

We've been warned against offering the people of this nation false hope. But in the unlikely story that is America, there has never been anything false about hope.

Charlotte Perkins Gilman:

However, one cannot put a quart in a pint cup.

Christopher Reeve:

Once you choose hope, anything's possible.

Dale Carnegie:

Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.

Don Quixote:

Sanity may be madness but the maddest of all is to see life as it is and not as it should be.

Dorothy Thompson:

Courage, it would seem, is nothing less than the power to overcome danger, misfortune, fear, injustice, while continuing to affirm inwardly that life with all its sorrows is good; that everything is meaningful even if in a sense beyond our understanding; and that there is always tomorrow.

Dorothy Thompson:

Fear grows in darkness; if you think there's a bogeyman around, turn on the light.

Elie Wiesel:

I have learned two lessons in my life: first, there are no sufficient literary, psychological, or historical answers to human tragedy, only moral ones. Second, just as despair can come to one another only from other human beings, hope, too, can be given to one only by other human beings.

Elizabeth Gilbert:

The inability to open up to hope is what blocks trust, and blocked trust is the reason for blighted dreams.

Elizabeth Gilbert:

To sit patiently with a yearning that has not yet been fulfilled, and to trust that, that fulfillment will come, is quite possibly one of the most powerful "magic skills" that human beings are capable of. It has been noted by almost every ancient wisdom tradition.

Erik H. Erikson:

Hope is both the earliest and the most indispensable virtue inherent in the state of being alive. If life is to be sustained hope must remain, even where confidence is wounded, trust impaired.

Friedrich Nietzsche:

Hope is the worst of evils, for it prolongs the torments of man.

George Bernard Shaw:

He who has never hoped can never despair.

Caesar and Cleopatra

Henri J. M. Nouwen:

All the great spiritual leaders in history were people of hope. Abraham, Moses, Ruth, Mary, Jesus, Rumi, Gandhi, and Dorothy Day all lived with a promise in their hearts that guided them toward the future without the need to know exactly what it would look like. Let's live with hope.

Henry Ward Beecher:

Repentance is another name for aspiration.

Jane Wagner:

A sobering thought: what if, at this very moment, I am living up to my full potential?

Kalidasa:

Listen to the Exhortation of the Dawn!
Look to this Day!
For it is Life, the very Life of Life.
In its brief course lie all the
Verities and Realities of your Existence.
The Bliss of Growth,
The Glory of Action,
The Splendor of Beauty;
For Yesterday is but a Dream,
And To-morrow is only a Vision;
But To-day well lived makes
Every Yesterday a Dream of Happiness,
And every Tomorrow a Vision of Hope.
Look well therefore to this Day!
Such is the Salutation of the Dawn!

Lin Yutang:

Hope is like a road in the country; there was never a road, but when many people walk on it, the road comes into existence.

Louisa May Alcott:

Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow them.

Margaret Fuller:

I accept the universe!

(Ralph Waldo Emerson's reported response: "By God, she'd better!")

Marion Zimmer Bradley:

The road that is built in hope is more pleasant to the traveler than the road built in despair, even though they both lead to the same destination.

Martin Luther King, jr.:

If you lose hope, somehow you lose the vitality that keeps life moving, you lose that courage to be, that quality that helps you go on in spite of it all. And so today I still have a dream.

The Trumpet of Conscience

Mohandas K. Gandhi:

You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.

Molly Ivins:

I still believe in Hope - mostly because there's no such place as Fingers Crossed, Arkansas.

Patricia Hampl:

The future is here, now, and the past is full of actual deeds, real history. Utopias hardly have the meat on their bones to sustain a people in grave times.

Pearl S. Buck:

None who have always been free can understand the terrible fascinating power of the hope of freedom to those who are not free.

Pearl S. Buck:

To eat bread without hope is still slowly to starve to death.

Pearl S. Buck:

Life without idealism is empty indeed. We just hope or starve to death.

Pierre Teilhard de Chardin:

The future belongs to those who give the next generation reason for hope.

Reinhold Niebuhr:

Nothing worth doing is completed in our lifetime,
Therefore, we are saved by hope.
Nothing true or beautiful or good makes complete sense in any immediate context of history;
Therefore, we are saved by faith.
Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone.
Therefore, we are saved by love.
No virtuous act is quite a virtuous from the standpoint of our friend or foe as from our own;
Therefore, we are saved by the final form of love which is forgiveness.

Rita Mae Brown:

Creativity comes from trust. Trust your instincts. And never hope more than you work.

Robert Fulghum:

I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death.

Robert G. Ingersoll:

Hope is the only universal liar who never loses his reputation for veracity.

Samuel Johnson:

The natural flights of the human mind are not from pleasure to pleasure but from hope to hope.

Thomas Jefferson:

I steer my bark with hope in the head, leaving fear astern. My hopes indeed sometimes fail, but not oftener than the forebodings of the gloomy.

1816

Thomas Merton:

Do not depend on the hope of results. You may have to face the fact that your work will be apparently worthless and even achieve no result at all, if not perhaps results opposite to what you expect. As you get used to this idea, you start more and more to concentrate not on the results, but on the value, the rightness, the truth of the work itself. You gradually struggle less and less for an idea and more and more for specific people. In the end, it is the reality of personal relationship that saves everything.

Unknown:

Rosa sat so Martin could walk, Martin walked so Barack could run, Barack ran so we all can fly.

Will Durant:

The trouble with most people is that they think with their hopes or fears or wishes rather than with their minds.

William Penn:

Never give out while there is hope; but hope not beyond reason, for that shows more desire than judgment.

Winston Churchill:

The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

Segenggam Harapan (title credited to ..

2009-04-02T11:02:00.003+08:00

Dalam resah dan tangis,
dalam derita dan payah,
sabar yang dicari,
bukan sekadar sebuah,
selautan malah...

Dalam derita dan air mata,
dalam getr rasa untuk berjaya,
harapan yang kusimpan,
bukan sekelumit,
segunung pun kalah...

Dalam setiap langkah,
ada dugaan yang mencelah...

Dalam setiap usaha,
ada halangan yang menduga...

Namun, keyakinan tak pernah goyah,
Impian tak pernah musnah...

Kerana kutahu,
tangan yang ini...
akhirnya pasti...
menggenggam pelangi...

Dalam hati...

2009-03-25T11:22:00.003+08:00

Dalam gelora amarah

Sabar yang dicari

Bukan sekadar sebuah

Selautan malah

Dalam tangis yang tertahan

Dan tawa yang tak tercapaikan

Hanya senyum getir

menjadi penawar

penyambung harapan

Dalam resah gelisah

Ada hati yang menuntut ketenangan

Mencari damai yang hilang

Dalam diam

ada kesabaran

Dalam diam

ada ketabahan yang kutanam

Dan dalam diam

ada doa yang terlafazkan

tropical village

2009-03-25T09:52:00.005+08:00

Melawan Kesepian

2009-03-24T02:25:00.002+08:00

Apapun yang terjadi

Berjalanlah tanpa henti

Air mata tertahan

Waktu untuk dijatuhkan

Nanti kita kan tahu

Betapa bijaknya hidup

Sepahit apapun ini

Pelajaran yang berarti

Semoga kepergianmu

Tak akan merubah apapun

Semoga mampu kulawan

Kesepianku

Nanti kita kan tahu

Betapa bijaknya hidup

Sepahit apapun ini

Pelajaran yang berarti

Semoga kepergianmu

Tak akan merubah apapun

Semoga mampu kulawan

Kesepianku

Semoga kepergianmu

Tak akan merubah apapun

Semoga mampu kulawan

Kesepianku

Semoga kepergianmu

Tak akan

Semoga mampu kulawan

Kesepianku

Apapun yang terjadi

Berjalanlah tanpa henti

aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana

2009-03-22T23:12:00.001+08:00

Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana
dengan kata yang tak sempat diucapkan
kayu kepada api yang menjadikannya abu

Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana
dengan isyarat yang tak sempat disampaikan
awan kepada hujan yang menjadikannya tiada

AKU INGIN -SAPARDI JOKO DAMONO-

http://kemudian.com/node/167250

what's happenin to me?

2009-02-25T23:19:00.002+08:00

what's happenin to me?
its like all of the things i've been hiding and burried deep inside my heart just burst up all at once...
i just wanna scream....
cry my heart out...
go somewhere no one know me...
do something out of the ordinary...
sleep all the way through this year...
CAN I DO ALL THAT!!!!!!!!!

why can i just cry for everything
why can i just scream for everything
why can i just be angry when anyting happen
why can i just OVERREACTED and be done with it...

why do i have to keep everything to myself
why do i have to burried all my feeling way deep inside
and keep everything away from the world...

I hope THE SUN WILL COME OUT TOMORROW......................................

ada apa dengan cinta

2009-02-17T17:16:00.001+08:00

Satu masa telah terlewati

Benci dan rindu merasuk di kalbu

Ada apa dengan cintaku

Sulit untuk aku ungkap semua

Jangan pernah bibir tertutup

Bicarakan semua yang kau rasakan

Cinta itu kita yang rasa

Bila sengsara hati kan merana

Wahai pujangga cinta

Biar membelai indah

Telaga di kalbuku

Jujurlah pada hatimu

Ada apa dengan cinta

Perbedaan aku dan engkau

Biar menjadi bait

Dalam puisi cinta terindah

Andai bumi terbelah dua

Biar kita tetap saling berpeluk

Yang Dicari

2009-02-10T19:19:00.000+08:00

Aku bukan siapa-siapa. aku hanya manusia biasa. Aku menginginkan seorang untuk mendampingiku. Untuk menutupi kelemahanku dan mengendalikan kelebihanku.
Aku hanya manusia biasa. Cintaku juga biasa saja. Oleh kerana itu aku menginginkan seorang supaya membantuku memupuk dan merawat cinta ini, agar menjadi luar biasa.
Aku tidak tahu apakah jodohku nanti dapat bersama-sama sampai mati. Kerana aku tidak tahu suratan jodohku. Yang pasti aku akan berusaha sekuat tenaga menjadi insan dan pasangan yang baik.

yang dicari...
walau bukan putera raja,biarlah putera agama...
yang diimpi...
biarlah tak punya rupa,asal sedap dipandang mata..
yang dinilai...
bukan sempurna sifat jasmani...asalkan sihat rohani,sempurna hati...
yang diharap...
bukan jihad pada semangat...asal perjuangannya ada matlamat...
yang datang...tak perlu rijal yang gemilang...
kerana aku serikandi dengan silam yang kelam...
yang dinanti...
bukan lamaran dengan permata...
cukuplah akad dan janji setia...
dan yang akan terjadi,
andai tak sama kehendak hati...
aku redha ketetapan Ilahi...
itulah ketentuan sejak azali...
namun aku harap biarlah dia seorang yang memahami diri ini..

matahariku

2009-01-30T17:42:00.002+08:00

matahariku
yang pergi tak kembali

matahariku
yang tenang bersemadi

matahariku
yang selama ini
ada di sisi hari hariku

matahariku
yang setia dalam tangis dan tawaku

matahariku
tenanglah dalam panjang lenamu
abadilah dalam memoriku
selamanya

untukmu
matahariku

yang kucari

2008-12-24T13:41:00.002+08:00

yang kucari
bukan pemuja setia
tapi
pencinta yang sejujurnya

yang kucari
bukan harta yang membukit banyaknya
tapi
pengertian untuk segalanya

yang kucari
bukan rupa
tapi
wajah yang menceriakan jiwa

yang kucari
bukan dia yang hanya menghantar duka
tapi
dirimu yang membalut nestapa

yang kucari
bukan dia yang hanya pandai berkata
tapi
dirimu ynag merealisasikan segala

yang kucari
bukan dia yang berpura cinta
tapi
dirimu yang ikhlas menerima

malang...
yang kucari..
telah pergi...
sebelum sempat kutemui...

Hurry Up And Save Me - Tiffany Giardina

2008-12-16T23:01:00.000+08:00

I'm going through the same day
Same place, same way I always do
Then I saw you from the corner of my eye
And it hit me like a ton of bricks, I can't lie
Oh you got to me
My life was alright living in black and white
But you changed my point of view

Show me your colors
Show me your colors
Cuz without you I'm blue
(Without you I'm blue)

Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
I just wanna feel alive
And I do when I'm with you

Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
I just wanna feel alive
And I do when I'm with you

(Show me your colors
Show me your colors)

I have to have control of myself
My thoughts, my mind
Cause the way it's going down
In my life I feel like a prisoner
In a light
Are you feeling me
Cuz the way you make my
Break my ,shake my, walls around
I feel like I'm breaking out

Show me your colors
Show me your colors
Cuz without you I'm blue
(Without you I'm blue)

Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
I just wanna feel alive
And I do when I'm with you
(Hurry hurry up)

Hurry up and save me (Save me)
Hurry up and save me (Save you)
Hurry up and save me (Save me)
Hurry up and save me
I just wanna feel alive
And I do when I'm with you

My window's opened up
Tonight I'm crawling out
Will you be there are you waiting
Will you be there will you save me

(So just save me, so just save me)
(Save me, save me) You can save me
(Save me, save me) I know you can save me
So just, so just save me
Without you I'm blue

Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
Hurry up and save me
I just wanna feel alive
And I do when I'm with you

Hurry up and save me (I'm blue)
Hurry up and save me (Are you)
Hurry up and save me (Are you)
Hurry up and save me (Are you)
I just wanna feel alive
And I do when I'm with you

Hurry up and save me (Save me)
Hurry up and save me (Save me)
Hurry up and save me (Save me)
Hurry up and save me (Save me)
I just wanna feel alive
And I do when I'm with you

Hurry up and save me (Save you)
Hurry up and save me (Save me)
Hurry up and save me (Save you)
Hurry up and save me (Save me)
I just wanna feel alive
And I do when I'm with you (Save you)
Save me, save me

Berhenti Berharap

2008-12-16T20:56:00.002+08:00

Aku tak percaya lagi

Dengan apa yang kau beri

Aku terdampar disini

Tersudut menunggu mati

Aku tak percaya lagi

Akan guna matahari

Yang dulu mampu terangi

Sudut gelap hati ini

Aku berhenti berharap

Dan menunggu datang gelap

Sampai nanti suatu saat

Tak ada cinta kudapat

Kenapa ada derita

Bila bahagia tercipta

Kenapa ada sang hitam

Bila putih menyenangkan

Haa…

Aku pulang…

Tanpa dendam

Ku terima kekalahanku

Aku pulang…

Tanpa dendam

Ku salutkan kemenanganmu

…

Kau ajarkan aku bahagia

Kau ajarkan aku derita

Kau tunjukan aku bahagia

Kau tunjukan aku derita

Kau berikan aku bahagia

Kau berikan aku derita
Haa…Haa…

Aku pulang…

Tanpa dendam

Ku terima kekalahanku

Rebahkan tangguhmu

Lepaskan perlahan

Kau akan mengerti

Semua…

Aku berhenti berharap

Dan menunggu datang gelap

Sampai nanti suatu saat

Tak ada cinta kudapat

Teman Yang Berbudi

2008-11-03T23:56:00.002+08:00

...kekasih sejati teman yang berbudi,

kasihnya bukan keterpaksaan,

bukan jua kerana keduniaan,

mekar hidup...disiram nur kasih...

terlebih dahulu, entry ini tak berkaitan dengan cinta atau loving/couple...hee...hee...

seorang teman bukan hanya tempat untuk bergelak ketawa, tapi juga tempat untuk merebahkan kepala saat kita memerlukan tempat untuk bersandar, jari yang menghapus air mata saat ia bercucuran. kekasih sejati teman yang berbudi...kasih yang sejati hanya datang dari seorang teman, teman yang ada di setiap sudut putaran kehidupan, susah mahupun senang = teman yang berbudi.

Teman yang datang bukan hanya kerana mereka inginkan sesuatu atau sekadar untuk berkongsi kegembiraan, tapi teman yang datang dengan rela, dengan hati yang terbuka, memberikan sepenuh kasih dan sayangnya, tanpa meminta balasan, ataupun mengharapkan imbuhan = kasihnya bukan keterpaksaan, bukan jua kerana keduniaan.

Mekar hidup disiram nur kasih = hidup dua insan yang bersahabat kerana Allah akan sentiasa dirahmati, diberkati, kerana persahabatan yang dibina bukan hanya untuk dunia, tapi diharap bersahabat hingga ke syurga.

Dedikasi buat Hezrin Ilyana, Syed Mohd Imran, Haziq, Nisa' dan Mie

GoOd LuCk

2008-10-27T23:34:00.002+08:00

Good luck for all my friends whose going to present their PSM tomorrow and a day after that (miey-z and hezrin - psm1)... all the best to u guys.

Sutera Kasih

2008-10-24T20:53:00.002+08:00

Kian lama terpenjara

Mencari makna cinta

Dalam ungkap kata bersulam dusta

Bila gerbang rahmat terbuka

Menjelma cinta suci

Sehalus dan selembut sutera kasih

Terbentanglah tersingkap kebenaran

Terlerailah terbenam kepalsuan

Tuhan pada-Mu ada kedamaian

Diribaan-Mu kebahagiaan

Tiada lagi rasa kesangsian di hati

Cinta Mu cinta tulus suci murni

Kasih-Mu nan abadi

Bertautlah bercambahlah cinta

Mengharum dalam jiwa

Menemukan kerinduan syahdu

Pada yang Maha Esa

Sutera kasih membelai

Membalut kelukaan itu

Sutera kasih melambai

Mengisi kekosongan pengharapan

Rela pasrahkan kehidupan

Mengharungi cabaran

Rintangan perjalanan di hadapan

Doa dan titis air mata

Mendamba sutera kasih

Agar terus bersemi selamanya

kerana dia manusia biasa

2008-10-24T19:41:00.005+08:00

dan tadi... soalan itu muncul lagi,

why him?
what so good about that guy that you seem to been blindfolded to see other person?
i wanna meet him one day, is he so special?
what happen to you?
are you under a spell or something?
open your eyes young lady...your wasting almost everything here!!!

and what am i left to say..seems like everybody else is doing the math for me here, for my life... when i'm just about to think, seems like everybody alreday had the conclusion. and left me with nothing to think about... mayb ethats why i wasn't thinking much..hmmm

ok, you guys wanna know why him right..cause he just a human, an everyday guy..which you can meet everywhere during any occasion... But this guys, capture my heart and from that very moment, i just know that he is the one for me.. i say this a lot, there's only one love that can stays in my heart, and there's only one person for it...if its gone, if he left...the heart will be broken, and just anything else, once broken, no replacement...

it is not the way the way he walk, or how he talk, not even how he make me smile and enlighted my days...its everything, from the simplest thing in a single words to the biggest things he do. its all the things...and then it was nothing....

Sampai Ku Menutup Mata

2008-10-22T11:26:00.002+08:00

Embun di pagi buta
Menebarkan bau asing
Detik demi detik ku hitung
Inikah saat ku pergi

Oh Tuhan ku cinta dia
Berikanlah aku hidup
Takkan ku sakiti dia
Hukum aku bila terjadi

Aku tak mudah untuk mencintai
Aku tak mudah mengaku ku cinta
Aku tak mudah mengatakan
Aku jatuh cinta

Senandungku hanya untuk cinta
Tirakatku hanya untuk engkau
Tiada dusta sumpah ku cinta
Sampai ku menutup mata
Cintaku sampai ku menutup mata

Oh Tuhan ku cinta dia
Berikanlah aku hidup
Takkan ku sakiti dia
Hukum aku bila terjadi

home sweet home

2008-10-21T16:37:00.000+08:00

ATTENTION..
i'm goin home tonite

pelajar kelas blogging

2008-10-21T16:32:00.001+08:00

huhu...saje je.. jom ramai-ramai singgah kat rumah pakcik senget.. yang baru buat blog... http://mesrakata.blogspot.com

dedaunan keguguran

2008-10-14T18:19:00.003+08:00

Dedaunan Yang Keguguran

Dan daun yang berguguran itu....

seolah tiada erti lagi...

sedang andai masa itu kau putar kembali...

daun itulah...

yang telah berbakti...

CaNtiK

2008-10-14T18:11:00.002+08:00

Cantik ... tapi tak mampu dimiliki

Menawan ... namun tak dapat dipegang

Mengagumkan ... tapi tak kekal

Seindah...pelangi

2008-10-14T12:41:00.001+08:00

Betapa

Indahnya pelangi

Ia tetap hanya air dibias mentari

To Forgive...but Not Forget?

2008-10-14T12:22:00.002+08:00

Lots of people say...to forgive and forget...what if i wanna forgive, but not forget...coz remembering makes me stop making the same mistake over and over again...

(gambar diatas adalah sekadar hiasan, tidak berkaitan dengan yang hidup atau yang sudah tiada)

Terbitkah Mentari..atau Terbenam Sudah?

2008-10-14T11:57:00.002+08:00

Terbitkah mentari itu?

atau

Terbenam sudah?

Dan kita...

apa seperti mentari...

seketika menerangi...

kemuadian pergi...

dan datang lagi...

memberi secebis harap pada yang mencari...

kitakah itu?

yang setia menunggu mentari..

atau yang hidup sekadar untuk mati?

biarkan hanya di hati

2008-10-14T11:52:00.003+08:00

Rasa itu,

Biarkan hanya berada di hati,

Bukan di wajah,

Atau terzahir pada tingkah,

Biarkan pada hati,

Kerana ia lebih mengetahui...

handbagplanet

2008-10-13T13:40:00.001+08:00

hrmmm. for those who want to try their luck in winning a free handbag...go to this website... http://www.handbagplanet.com/
they have 24 hanbages to be given in 24 hours.. and all of them are extremely superb...

Langsir Mama

2008-10-10T17:15:00.002+08:00

Langsir baru untuk raya tahun ni...

Bukan selalu kitaorang tukar langsir, lebih - lebih lagi kalau ianya 100% air tangan mama...langsir tu sebenarnya aku yang beli akhir tahun lepas kat Nagoya, Summit, then mama bawak balik n start misi jahit menjahit... dan akhirnya, sehari sebelum raya, langsir itu berjaya disiapkan...Langsir lama warna maroon tu rasanya dah berusia sedekad....
Ironinya, Langsir baru mama warna caremel, sedondon dengan baju raya kami sekeluarga tahun ni...terutama sekali baju melayu faiz dan fikri...aku terselamat memandangkan baju kurungku adalah songket bewarna emas...haha. Sudahnya, takde sorangpun yang sanggup berlama-lama di tingkap, takut kena perli....
Sampaikan sepupuku yang balik beraya sempat tanya kat adik aku..."pakej ek? langsir ngan baju" sangat ironi...gambar langsir akan aku postkan kemudian, gambar raya tertinggal kat kampung...

hmmm...

2008-10-07T19:31:00.004+08:00

A walk in Batu Pahat Mall after going to Batu Pahat...hmmm at this time, it is still in fasting season...

PeRanTau

2008-10-07T19:23:00.004+08:00

Majlis Sambutan Hari Raya untuk PERANTAU... Anak Terengganu di Perantauan...

with Menteri Besar Terengganu

with Anis Suraya

My Shoulder To Cry On

2008-10-03T23:01:00.004+08:00

I miss my shoulder to cry on....

most of them are either graduating,

too busy to became my shoulder

or cought in their world...

what to do,

who to talk to,

how to say it...

hmmmm this makes me so sad and bored.

my birthday..september 10th

2008-10-03T22:53:00.003+08:00

this is shocking...a day after my birthday, i received a text msg from one of my old friends wanting to meet me..to my amazement, he come with a cake...now that's a suprise people wont think about..
anyway, thanks to Wan for remembering my birthday and for the delicious cake..well who care if its belated...its not when, what, who or where..its the WHY that matters the most...

PICC...majlis berbuka puasa

2008-10-03T22:42:00.005+08:00

this are several pictires taken in PICC, perdana hall when the ministry of higher education conduct a majlis berbuka puasa for all the students

with all the jkk from uthm...everybody is too full to move

never miss the shot...

camera? or food?

Ramadhan...

2008-10-03T22:15:00.006+08:00

well...what more can you hope for...when you're away from home, all you got is friends right...so yo wont get bored and lonely

the ladies in the kitchen

the food

the preparation

the after party...and why is that guy wearing helmat (maybe for safety, since we're playing with fire..huhuhu)

so...what's wrong for being children once in a while :)

trip to tioman island

2008-10-03T22:00:00.002+08:00

A Trip To Tioman

A good way of spending time with my classmate actually...especially since i hevent been really involve in class activities these days..so it was like making up for those time i was so cought up in my own schedule...
nice trip...overall...i enjoy it, depsite a few incident..hey, a road with no humps is boring right!!!

thanks to the manager, class representative iefie for all the efforts

jatuh cinta sekali lagi....

2008-09-14T11:05:00.003+08:00

PERTAMA
aku jatuh hati pada sikapnya
pada ketulusan hati
yang terdengar pada bait - bait kata
pada ikhlas,
yang terpancar di wajahnya
walau tak terlihat pada mata zahirku

"awan, kalau dapat dicapai maka saktilah hamba,
kau bagaikan puteri...."

KEDUA
ayat yang diucapnya membuat hati jadi terpaku,
kaku dan terharu
'sebagai manusia, aku sayang padamu'
bukan madah, jauh sekali romantik
tapi ayat itu terkesan dihatiku
walau sekadar di pandangan mata yang membaca
bukan telinga yang kepingin mendengarnya

"pabila cinta berbisik,
suaranya memuji TUHAN,
tatkala rindu terusik,
Rasulnya jadi pilihan,
sampai masanya cinta jadi taruhan,
Sang Ratu menjadi impian"

KETIGA
pintu hati diketuk sekali lagi
pertemuannya dengan sang puteri menjadi bukti
bahawa ratu tetap di hati
siapalah aku untuk menilai seorang watak..
walau kumohon..
agar itulah sikap dan sifat
pilihan ALLAH untukku

Sunan, izinkan aku menjadi Ratna di hatimu.................

limaza?????????????????????

2008-09-07T18:43:00.001+08:00

jatuh cinta satu kesilapan?
limaza?
…bukankah ia hadir dari rahmat yang esa
bukankah ia datang tanpa dipinta
hadir tanpa diduga
cinta bukan satu kesilapan
tapi tempat menguji ketakwaan
cintakah kita pada yang Esa
atau
melangit pada yang tak kekal
sama ada kita hamba pada cinta atau PENCIPTA
cinta bukan satu kesilapan
ia perasaan nan suci
kita yang menzahirkan
kenapa cinta dipersalahkan
tatkala ia dinodai
bukan salah cinta itu…tapi diri
sebab tak dibina dengan islam
tak dihalusi dengan keimanan
tak dibajai dengan ketakwaan
cinta bukan satu kesalahan
tapi tapak penyubur iman
kerana…’tak sempurna iman seseorang
jika ia tidak mengasihi saudaranya
seperti mana ia mengasihi dirinya’
cinta bukan satu kesilapan
bukankah Allah Maha Pengasih dan Penyayang
Cinta itu luas tafsiran
cinta ibu membawa ke syurga
cinta keluarga memberi bahagia
cinta pada kerajinan peroleh kejayaan
cinta pada buku dicurahkan ilmu
cinta pada sahabat mendapat berkat
cinta pada ibadah mendatangkan rahmat Tuhan
cinta pada Allah kebahagiaan yang hakiki
Tapi…memang cinta satu kesilapan
jika ia menjauhkan diri dari Pencipta
jika ia membina jurang dari yang Esa
jika ia mengalpakan diri
lantas mengangkat darjat kemaksiatan
jika ia memadam cahaya Ilahi
jika ia mengundang kemungkaran Khalid-Nya
jika cinta menjadikan kita hambanya
maka seharusnya cinta itu kau jauhi
dan memang ia merupakan satu KESILAPAN
by Nay {27 Ogos 2003}- blues selamanya
*******************************************thanks to fez.

quote for today

2008-09-07T18:41:00.001+08:00

Quote of the Day
“Ideas won’t keep. Something must be done about them.”
– Alfred North Whitehead
“We don’t know a millionth of one percent about anything.”
– Thomas Edison
“Do not fear mistakes. There are none.” – Miles Davis
“Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off the goal.” – Hannah More
“Conclusions arrived at through reasoning have very little or no influence in altering the course of our lives.” – Carlos Casteneda
“To accomplish great things we must dream as well as act.” – Anatole France
“It is the essence of genius to make use of the simplest ideas.” – Charles Peguy
“Confusion is a word we have invented for an order which is not yet understood.” – Henry Miller
“You can’t solve a problem on the same level that it was created. You have to rise above it to the next level.”– Albert Einstein
“If you have always done it that way, it is probably wrong.” – Charles Kettering
“A definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” – Rita Mae Brown
“Everything should be as simple as it is, but no simpler.” – Albert Einstein
“Genius is infinite painstaking.” – Michelangelo
“Nothing will change the fact that I cannot produce the least thing without absolute solitude.”– Goethe
“Swipe from the best, then adapt.” – Tom Peters
“Give me the young man who has brains enough to make a fool of himself.”
– Robert Louis Stevenson
“You can expect no influence if you are not susceptible to influence.”
– Carl Jung
“Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it.” – Goethe
“Sit, walk, or run, but don’t wobble.” – Zen proverb
“The greater the contrast, the greater the potential. Great energy only comes from a correspondingly great tension of opposites.”– Carl Jung
“We don’t know who discovered water, but we’re certain it wasn’t a fish.”
– John Culkin
“I will act as if what I do will make a difference.” – William James
There is no such thing as a long piece of work, except one that you dare not start. – Charles Baudelaire
“What is now proved was once only imagined.” – William Blake
“Remember, a dead fish can float down a stream, but it takes a live one to swim upstream.” – W.C. Fields
“99 percent of success is built on failure.” – Charles Kettering
“Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts.” – Albert Einstein
“I start where the last man left off.” – Thomas Edison
“Never confuse motion with action.” – Ernest Hemingway
“The greatest invention in the world is the mind of a child.”– Thomas Edison
“No matter how well you perform, there’s always somebody of intelligent opinion who thinks it’s lousy.” – Sir Laurence Olivier
“You must do the thing you think you cannot do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
“I’ll play it first and tell you what it is later.” – Miles Davis
“The way to get good ideas is to get lots of ideas and throw the bad ones away.”– Linus Pauling
“Discovery is seeing what everybody else has seen, and thinking what nobody else has thought”. – Albert Szent-Gyorgi
“A pile of rocks ceases to be a rock pile when somebody contemplates it with the idea of a cathedral in mind.”– Antoine Saint-Exupery
“Without a deadline, baby, I wouldn’t do nothing.” – Duke Ellington
“In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities; in the expert’s mind there are few.” – Shunryu Suzuki
“Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity.” – General George Patton
“The man with a new idea is a crank—until the idea succeeds.” – Mark Twain
“A problem well stated is a problem half solved.” – Charles Kettering
“The best thinking has been done in solitude. The worst has been done in turmoil.” – Thomas Edison
“Don’t be afraid to take a big step when one is indicated. You can’t cross a chasm in two small jumps.” – David Lloyd George
“The silly question is the first intimation of some totally new development.”
– Alfred North Whitehead
“Intuition will tell the thinking mind where to look next.”– Jonas Salk
“Money never starts an idea; it is the idea that starts the money.”
– William J. Cameron
“Systems die; instincts remain.” – Oliver Wendell Holmes
“You will never find the time for anything. If you want time, you must make it.” – Charles Burton
“Whenever anything is being accomplished, it is being done, I have learned, by a monomaniac with a mission.” – Peter Drucker
“One of the illusions of life is that the present hour is not the critical, decisive one.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
“The lightning spark of thought generated in the solitary mind awakens its likeness in another mind.”– Thomas Carlyle
“The way to succeed is to double your failure rate.”
– Thomas Watson
“A lot of people are afraid of heights. Not me, I’m afraid of widths.”
– Steven Wright
“Innovation opportunities do not come with the tempest but with the rustling of the breeze.” – Peter Drucker
“You can only be as good as you dare to be bad.” – John Barrymore
“No idea is so outlandish that it should not be considered.” – Winston Churchill
“If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.”– Rollo May
“Nothing is more dangerous than an idea when it is the only one you have.”
– Emile Chartier
“Almost all really new ideas have a certain aspect of foolishness when they are just produced.” – A.N. Whitehead
“The gift of fantasy has meant more to me than my talent for absorbing positive knowledge.” – Albert Einstein
“Every act of creation is, first of all, an act of destruction.” – Pablo Picasso
“Genius is infinite painstaking.” – Michelangelo
“Imagination is more important than knowledge.”
– Albert Einstein
“Genius, in truth, means little more than the faculty of perceiving in an unhabitual way.”
– William James
“Vision is the art of seeing things invisible.”
– Jonathan Swift
“If you can dream it, you can do it.”
– Walt Disney
“The best way to predict the future is to create it.”
–Alan Kay
“If you go to your grave without painting your masterpiece, it will not get painted. No one else can paint it.”
– Gordon MacKenzie
“Taking a new step, uttering a new word, is what people fear most.”
– Fyodor Dostoevsky
“If you lose the power to laugh, you lose the power to think.”
– Clarence Darrow
“Security is mostly a superstition. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.”
– Helen Keller
“Intuition will tell the thinking mind where to look next.”
– Jonas Salk
“Now that we have met with paradox we have some hope of making progress.”
– Niels Bohr
“Microsoft is never more than two years away from failure.”
– Bill Gates
“We’ve reached the end of incrementalism. Only those companies that are capable of creating industry revolutions will prosper in the new economy.”
– Gary Hamel
“I’ve been doing a lot of abstract painting lately, extremely abstract. No
brush, no paint, no canvas, I just think about it.”
– Steven Wright
“I want to put a ding in the universe.”
– Steve Jobs

untukmu segalanya

2008-09-07T18:37:00.002+08:00

………biar kubawa rindu dan sendu yang luka ke dalam dada.
MAHFUZ
telah kucuba bunuh engkau,
bersama kenangan silam semalam,
agar putik rasa dalam hati,
berderai bersama lara,
biar kubawa rindu yang terkepung,
bersama sendu nan luka.
rasanya…
ingin kupergi sejauh mana jua pun,
agar dapat kubenam rasa pedih,
rindu kasih semalam,
pun telah kucuba,
membenci seluruh jiwa ragaku,
agar dapat melupakan rasa kasih yang tersemai,
maka jadilah aku di sini,
seorang pembunuh yang lara,
seorang pelari yang kecewa,
seorang pembenci yang tewas,
kerana kasihmu tetap mahfuz…
………….(novel ‘untukmu segalanya’ by norhayati berahim)

i wish i can

2008-09-07T18:37:00.001+08:00

i’m sorry i cant always be there for you, if only you know how much i want to. i’m sorry for not being the good friend i promise you to. i’m too busy with my own stuff, carried away by my own feelings till i forget that there are people who need me. i’m sorry i turn my back the time you most needed me. knowing that you’ll always be the person who’s gonna love me for me make me realize, i’ve overlooked a diamond in my hand. i’m sorry for being so stupid, sorry to never listen to you.
i wish i can turn back time, if only i can make all the pain in your heart dissapear, if only i can heal the all wounds inside you. but i cant. i wish i can go back and make a brand new start, but i cant. the only thing i can do is start now and make a new ending. i wish i can promise you days without pain, laughter without sorrow,and sun without rain. but i’ts impossible for me to do. the only thing i can do is promising you the strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.
……………………………………………..i am sorry …

matahariku

2008-09-07T18:33:00.000+08:00

matahariku…
setiap nafasmu,
adalah denyut nadiku.

setiap tawamu,
adalah senyumku.

setiap sendumu,
adalah tangisku.

setiap anganmu,
adalah mimpiku.

setiap kejayaanmu,
adalah keyakinanku.

setiap kesenanganmu,
adalah ketenanganku.

setiap kedukaanmu,
adalah kelukaanku.

dan cintamu…mungkin bukan milikku.

andai

2008-09-07T18:31:00.002+08:00

andai…
andai esok kupergi,
andai esok ku tiada lagi di sini,
aku ingin katakan sesuatu,
aku ingin kau tahu…
bahawa hati ini hanya untukmu…
walau ku tak pernah meluahkan…
tapi kupasti akan hatiku…
walau tak pernah kunyatakan…
kuyakin akan cintaku
maafkan andai coretan ini mengganggu lenamu…
maafkan andai pengakuan ini menggugat tenangmu…
ku jua tak ingin menyatakan…
ku jua tak ingin melafazkan…
tapi andai kupergi…
ku ingin kau tahu.
maafkan aku kerana menyayangimu.

n i love you

2008-09-07T18:31:00.001+08:00

« akhirnya
sampai bila »
i do…love you
I love you..
although its never been said,
although i never show it,
although you wont believe it.
I love you…
Not for who you are,
neither for who you’re not,
but for who i am…
when i’m with you.
I love you…
Not to hold you in my arms,
Neither to make you love me.
But to look at you,
And see the happiness in your eyes,
For each and every moment of my life…
… because …
… it is more than ever enough…
… to make me happy.

sampai bila

2008-09-07T18:29:00.001+08:00

sampai bila
mampukah aku menjadi lilin…
membakar diri menerangi insan lain…
atau tegakah diriku menurut resmi enau dalam belukar?
melepaskan pucuk masing-masing
sampai bila mampu ku bertahan?
mengukir senyum sedang hati bertangisan…
mampukah kuubat hati yang terhiris …
demi menjaga hati insan lain dari terguris…
selaut tangis yang kutahan…
bagai menguji pintu kesabaran…
bukan kusembunyikan perasaan…
tapi bimbang ia melukakan
bukan kusembahkan sebuah lakonan..
tapi jangan kerana ku,
ada yang terguris perasaan…
dan kerana itu…
aku telah memilih diam…
xXx, 1554, 11022007, ptm

try

2008-09-07T18:26:00.001+08:00

try
a hidden cry
a fake smile…
its not a lie…
it’s me
simply try…
sorry i fake this laugh
not that i hate you
sorry i hide this tears
it’s not because i wanna neglect you…
how could you possibly understand…
how could you ever know…
i lie in my every move…
i act in each of my words
i hide my feelings…
i’m wearing a happy mask…
sorry,
never meant to lie to you…
but this tears…
this wound…
is filling the emptiness in my heart
and this heart…can never be strong enough

cinta dan suka

2008-09-07T18:25:00.000+08:00

cinta vs. suka. what’s the difference???

Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta,hati kita akan berdegup kencang..
Tapi di depan orang yang kita suka,hati kita akan gembira…
Di depan orang yang kita cinta,musim sentiasa berbunga-bunga…
Di depan orang yang kita suka,musim itu cuma berangin sahaja…
Jikalau kita lihat di dalam mata orang yang kita cinta,kita akan kaku…
Tapi jikalau kita melihat ke dalam mata orang yang kita suka,kita akan tersenyum…
Di depan orang yang kita cinta,lidah kelu untuk berkata-kata…
Di depan orang yang kita suka,lidah bebas berkata apa sahaja…
Di depan orang yang kita cinta,kita menjadi malu…
Di depan orang yang kita suka,kita akan tunjukkan imej yang sebenar…
Kita tidak boleh merenung mata orang yang kita cinta…Tapi kita selalu merenung mata orang yang kita suka…
Bila orang yang kita cinta menangis,kita akan turut menangis…
Bila orang yang kita suka menangis,kita akan turut membuat dia gembira…
Perasaan cinta bermula dari mata,
Perasaan suka bermula dari telinga…
Jadi, jikalau kita berhenti menyukai seseorang yang kita suka…
Umpama kita membuang telinga kitaT
api jika kita cuba menutup mata
Cinta berbuah menjadi airmata

Setiap orang yang akan mengalami ini dalam hidup mereka,
Cuma fikirkanlah bersama-sama siapa yang anda cinta?.
Ada apa dengan cinta
Tetapi, hakikatnya?
Cinta kepada Allah SWT
Adalah lebih hakiki dan abadi selama-lamanya..

milikku atau singgahan waktu

2008-09-07T18:24:00.001+08:00

milikku @ singgahan waktu
cinta…
ceritera indah yang penuh duka
cinta…
pergi saat kau hampiri
mampir kembali, andai kau cuba membawa diri
hati…
kenapa enggak bicara sejujurnya
pada apa yang engkau rasa
diri…
sampai kapan…
mampu kau berdusta
cinta…
andai benar dia milikku.
biarkan rasa ini kekal di situ
andai dia sekadar singgahan waktu..
jangan sampai luka bertamu
xXx.

ruang waktu

2008-09-07T18:23:00.000+08:00

ruang waktu,
singkat berlalu,
cinta…
datang bertamu,
rindu…
singgah selalu,
kenapa hatiku?
masih kekal membisu…
kenapa ulas bibirmu?
mengukir sendu…
sayang…
jangan menangis,
kerana airmatamu…
menghiris jiwaku
kasih…
jangan bersedih
kerana dukamu
menabrak jantungku
senyumlah wahai permata hati…
kerna senyummu itu…
cukup untuk membahagiakanku.

setulus hatiku

2008-09-07T18:21:00.000+08:00

setulus hatiku
kadangkala, tanpa kita sedari..
kita terlalu banyak melukakan…
mengguris hati insan lain…
dan acapkali,
kita menghiris hati insan yang kita sayangi,
terlalu banyak rasanya diri ini melukakan hatimu,
terlalu dalam rasanya luka itu,
maafkan salahku..
walau mungkin,
aku tidak layak lagi untuk memohon itu…

hidup ini satu perjalanan,
aku yang musafir di bumi ini memohon seribu kemaafan,
atas segala tingkahku,
demi setiap langkahku,
yang melukakan,
mengguris dan menghiris perasaanmu.

andai dapat kuulangi waktu,
akan kupastikan hatimu tak tercalar walau seinci,
tak terusik walau sekali…
namun segala itu diluar keupayaanku.
apa yang kumampu adalah memohon maaf darimu,
kerana terlalu banyak khilafku,
atas keterlanjuran kata-kataku…
yang merejam nuranimu.
apa yang kutahu,
adalah untuk menyayangimu..
setulus hatiku,
walau dirimu tak mungkin mengerti

orang kata

2008-09-07T18:19:00.000+08:00

orang kata….ntah

Orang kata…
cinta sejati tak perlukan ungkapan

Mungkin…
Kerana adakalanya mata mampu membaca
Ada ketikanya lenggok bahasa mampu tuturkan
Ada waktunya layanan mampu meluahkan …

Namun …
Tak semua mata yang mampu membaca citra cinta
Kadangkala lenggok bahasa tidak berbeza
Layanan kekal serupa…

Lantas…
Untuk meyakinkan telinga yang ingin mendengar
Hati yang lama mengharap
Hanya ungkapan yang bisa menjadi santapan.
…………………………………………………………………………………………. xxooNfm. 1104

ingin tahu

2008-09-07T18:16:00.001+08:00

…ingin tahu…

tidak sukar untuk ku membaca hatimu
bila mata lebih lantang bersuara
apa ku percaya
dedaun mekar di pepohon
rupanya gugur di musim luruh

dalam diam cinta
telah berubah hati
dalam diam persimpangan menanti
bila berdampingan jalinan mesra tiada lagi
tiada sinar kasih menyinari

mungkin dirimu dah ada pengganti
yang mengukir senyuman
hatimu dah dicuri
mungkin juga diriku sudah menyusahkan
tidak sempurna lagi
apa itu kah di hati

demi kasih kita
katakanlah sayang
hanya awan mendung yang kan menanti kita
tak guna berpura
jika hati tawaroh

demi kasih kita
ikhlaslah padaku
masihkah punya ruang di sudut hati mu
atau dah tertutup pintu di hati mu
katakan ku ingin tahu
ingin tahu kerna masih sayangkan mu

daku faham bibir
enggan berbicara
mungkin tak sanggup lihat ku kecewa
setelah sekian lama
jalinan dibina bersama
namun takdir punya kisah berbeza

tak tertahan pedih rasanya di hati
tak pernah ku alami
tak bisa diubati
tanpa mu di sisi ku bagai hilang punca
ku hilang segalanya
hanya kau saja ku cinta

demi kasih kita
katakanlah sayang
hanya awan mendung yang kan menanti kita
tak guna berpura
jika hati tawaroh

demi kasih kita
ikhlaslah padaku
masihkah punya ruang di sudut hati mu
atau dah tertutup
pintu di hati mu
katakan ku ingin tahu
ingin tahu kerna masih sayangkan mu

maafkanlah, sekali lagi

2008-09-07T18:15:00.002+08:00

maafkanlah…sekali lagi
maafkan..
sekali lagi,
kerana hadir di ruang matamu,
kerana wujud di hatimu,
maafkan…
kerana menjadi diriku…

untukmu

2008-09-07T18:13:00.000+08:00

untukmu…
diriku hanya di hadapannya,
namun dia tidak pernah melihaku,
dia pandang depan, kiri, kanan malah belakang,
namun tidak padaku yang hanya di hadapannya,
namun diri ini masih sentiasa dihadapannya…
namun diri ini masih berada untuknya
di setiap langkah dan denyut nafasnya
menanti sehingga satu hari,untuk dia membuka mata
dan melihat serta menyedari kewujudanku di hadapannya.

tapi itu dulu…namun bukan sekarang
saat ini diriku sudah letih untuk berada di hadapanmu,
penat dan pedih perasaan tak tertanggung lagi
diriku, hanya dihadapanmu
tapi kau lupa untuk melihat terus ke dasar hatiku
dirimu, mendengar kata-kataku,
tapi tak pernah mendengar maksud ucapanku.

dan hari ini,
diri ini tidak mampu lagi untuk terus berada di hadapanmu,
untuk itu…biarlah aku berlalu
biarlah kubawa hati nan satu, lari jauh darimu.
bukan niatku, dan bukan pilihanku
tapi itu pintamu yang kau nyatakan dalam bisu
supaya diriku tidak terus di hadapanmu

p/s; biar aku pergi dulu, maafkan khilafku.

This is me

2008-09-06T16:51:00.001+08:00

[Demi Lovato]
I've always been the kind of girl
That hid my face
So afraid to tell the world
What I've got to say
But I have this dream
Bright inside of me
I'm gonna let it show
It's time to let you know
To let you know...

[Chorus]
This is real, this is me
I'm exactly where
I'm supposed
To be now
Gonna let the light shine on me
Now I've found who I am
There's no way to hold it in
No more hiding who I want to be
This is me
Do you know what it's like
To feel so in the dark
To dream about a life
Where you're the shining star
Even though it seems
Like it's too far away
I have to believe
In myself, it's the only way

[Chorus][Joe Jonas]
You're the voice I hear inside my head
The reason that I'm singin'
I need to find you
I gotta find you
You're the missin' piece I need
The song inside of me
I need to find youI gotta find you

[Both][Chorus]
This is me... This is me..

[Joe Jonas]
You're the missing piece I need
The song inside of me
You're the voice I hear
Inside my head
The reason that I'm singin'

[Both]
There's no way to hold it in
No more hiding who I want to be
This is me

maafkan bila ku tak sempurna 4

2008-09-05T14:20:00.000+08:00

Desir pasir di padang tandus
Segar sang pemikiran hati
Terkisah ku di antara
Cinta yang rumit
Bila keyakinanku datang
Kasih bukan sekedar cinta
Pengorbanan cinta yang agung
Kupertaruhkan
Maafkan bila ku tak sempurna
Cinta ini tak mungkin ku cegah
Ayat-ayat cinta bercerita
Cintaku padamu
Bila bahagia mulai menyentuh
Seakan ku bisa hidup lebih lama
Namun harus kutinggalkan cinta
Ketika ku bersujud

maafkan bila ku tak sempurna 3

2008-09-02T21:48:00.001+08:00

kenapa kita menutup mata ketika kita tidur?,ketika kita menangis?,ketika kita membayangkan sesuatu?.Itu kerana hal terindah di dunia ini TIDAK TERLIHAT…Ketika kita menemui seseorang yang keunikannya SEIRING dengan kita, kita bergabung dengannya dan jatuh ke dalam suatu keanehan yang dinamakan CINTA.Ada hal-hal yang tidak ingin kita lepaskan.Orang-orang yang tidak ingin kita tinggalkan… Tapi ingatlah…melepaskan BUKAN akhir sebuah dunia, melainkan awal suatu kehidupan yang baru. Kebahagiaan ada untuk mereka yang menangis, mereka yang disakiti, mereka yang telah mencari…dan mereka yang telah mencuba. Kerana MEREKALAH yang bisa menghargai betapa pentingnya orang yang telah menyentuh kehidupan mereka…
CINTA yang AGUNG, adalah ketika kamu menitiskan air mata dan MASIH peduli terhadapnya, adalah ketika dia tidak mempedulikanmu dan kamu MASIH menunggunya dengan setia, adalah ketika dia mulai mencintai orang lain dan kamu MASIH bisa tersenyum seraya berkata ‘Aku turut berbahagia untukmu’.Apabila cinta tidak berhasil…BEBASKANLAH dirimu…biarkan hatimu kembali melebarkan sayapnya dan terbang ke alam bebas. Ingatlah… bahawa kamu mungkin menemui cinta dan kehilangannya tapi ketika cinta itu mati, kamu TIDAK perlu mati bersamanya…Orang yang kuat BUKAN mereka yang selalu menang, MELAINKAN mereka yang tetap tegar ketika mereka jatuh. Entah bagaimana dalam perjalanan kehidupan, kamu belajar tentang dirimu sendiri dan menyedari bahawa penyesalan tidak seharusnya ada. HANYALAH penghargaan abadi atas pilihan-pilihan kehidupan yang telah kau buat. TEMAN SEJATI… mengerti ketika kamu berkata ‘aku lupa..’, menunggu selamanya ketika kamu berkata ‘tunggu sebentar’. Tetap tinggal ketika kamu berkata ‘tinggalkan aku sendiri’. Membuka pintu meski kamu BELUM menutup dan berkata ‘bolehkah saya masuk?’.
MENCINTAI… BUKANlah bagaimana kamu melupakan, melainkan bagaimana kamu MEMAAFKAN. BUKANlah bagaimana kamu mendengarkan, melainkan bagaimana kamu MENGERTI. BUKANlah apa yang kamu lihat, melainkan apa yang kamu RASAKAN. BUKANlah bagaimana kamu melepaskan, melainkan bagaimana kamu BERTAHAN. Lebih bahaya mencucurkan air mata dalam hati, dibandingkan menangis tersedu-sedu. Air mata yang keluar dapat dihapus, sementara air mata yang tersembunyi menggoreskan luka yang tidak akan pernah hilang. Dalam urusan cinta, kita SANGAT JARANG menang.. Tapi ketika CINTA itu TULUS, meskipun kalah, kamu TETAP MENANG hanya kerana kamu berbahagia dapat mencintai seseorang…LEBIH dari kamu mencintai dirimu sendiri.
Akan tiba saatnya dimana kamu harus berhenti mencintai seseorang BUKAN karena orang itu berhenti mencintai kita, MELAINKAN karena kita menyadari bahwa orang itu akan lebih berbahagia apabila kita melepaskannya. Apabila kamu benar-benar mencintai seseorang, jangan lepaskan dia, jangan percaya bahwa melepaskan SELALU bererti kamu benar-benar mencintai.MELAINKAN… BERJUANGLAH demi cintamu. Itulah CINTA SEJATI. Lebih baik menunggu orang yang kamu inginkan DARIPADA berjalan bersama orang ‘yang tersedia’. Kadang kala, orang yang kamu cintai adalah orang yang PALING menyakiti hatimu dan kadang kala, teman yang menangis bersamamu adalah cinta yang tidak kamu sadari.

maafkan bila ku tak sempurna 2

2008-09-02T21:11:00.000+08:00

Bila dia kata aku suka kamu, aku juga kata ya aku suka kamu juga tetapi sebagai sahabat. Beri masa tali persahabatan ini terjalin.
Bila dia kata aku rindu kamu, aku kata rindu perlu antara sahabat kerana rindu akan memastikan kamu sentiasa ingat pada aku.
Bila dia kata aku sayang kamu, aku kata sepertimana aku menyayangi persahabatan kita perasaan sayang itu memang akan sentiasa kita rasai di kalangan sahabat-sahabat sejati.
Bila dia kata aku cinta kamu, aku kata cinta itu terlalu meluas maksudnya. Selamilah dahulu makna cinta yang sebenarnya sebelum kita bercakap lebih lanjut lagi akan perkataan ini.
Kemudian dia tidak pernah mengatakan apa-apa lagi pada aku. Dia masih sering aku temui, masih menjadi sahabat aku yang paling sejati, masih lagi berseri wajahnya dengan senyuman dan tawa. Tetapi pada suatu hari dia hulurkan sepucuk nota kepada aku dan berlalu pergi tanpa menoleh lagi. Sehingga kini aku tidak pernah melihatnya lagi.
“Aku tahu kau mencintai aku tetapi kenapa kau tidak buktikannya dengan mendekati aku lebih mesra lagi? Kenapa semakin kau mencintai aku semakin kau menjauhkan diri daripada aku? Desy mencintai aku dan setiap masa yang ada dia pasti akan cuba mendekati aku, cuba untuk bersama dengan aku di mana saja aku berada. Tapi kau, semakin aku cuba mendekati diri mu semakin jauh kau tinggalkan aku. Kenapa? Aku sudah letih dari terus cuba untuk mengenali dan memahami dirimu. Mungkin memang kau ditakdirkan bukan untuk aku…”
Begitulah kata-kata akhir dari dia dan aku telah kehilangan sesuatu yang begitu aku inginkan sebenarnya. Aku sendiri tidak memahami kenapa aku bertindak sedemikian tapi apa yang aku tahu bila aku menjauh maksudnya aku cinta…
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maafkan aku...

hanya ingin kau tahu_Republik

2008-09-02T20:39:00.003+08:00

Ku telah miliki
Rasa indahnya perihku
Rasa hancurnya harapku
Kau lepas cintaku
Rasakan abadi
Sekalipun kau mengerti
Sekalipun kau pahami
Ku pikir ku salah mengertimu
Aku hanya ingin kau tahu
Besarnya cintaku
Tingginya khayalku bersamamu
Tuk lalui waktu yang tersisa kini
Di setiap hariku
Di sisa akhir nafas hidupku
Walaupun semua hanya ada dalam mimpiku
Hanya ada dalam anganku
Melewati hidup
Rasakan abadi
Sekalipun kau mengerti
Sekalipun kau pahami
Ku pikir ku salah mengertimu
Aku hanya ingin kau tahu
Besarnya cintaku
Tingginya khayalku bersamamu
Tuk lalui waktu yang tersisa kini
Di setiap hariku
Di sisa akhir nafas hidupku
Aku hanya ingin kau tahu
Besarnya cintaku
Tingginya khayalku bersamamu
Tuk lalui waktu yang tersisa kini
Di setiap hariku
Di sisa akhir nafas hidupku
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############################untuk insan ynag bertakhta di hati..dari dulu hingga kini

yang sebenarnya

2008-09-02T13:34:00.002+08:00

Anak ruan tidak terluang
Benang sutera di dalam buluh
Hendak buang tidak terbuang
Sudah mesra di dalam tubuh

hmmm................pastinya kalian sering mendengar ucapan, perkara andai dibuat berulang-ulang, pasti jadi tabiat...begitulah jua pantun ynag kupersembahkan sebagai pembuka bicara coretan pada hari ini.

amalan, perlu dilaksanakan berulang-ulang, barulah nanti jadi kebiasaan.
hati, bila sudah terdidik untuk sayang, akan sukar untuk memilih kebencian.
bibir boleh mengorak senyuman, walau hati penasaran
ucapan mampu diputarbelitkan, sedang hati akan sentiasa mencipta kebenaran
pembohongan, walau sekukuh mana, takkan mampu mengatasi kebenaran
lakonan, takkan mampu membunuh kenyataan.

seumpama naskah yang terbuka, sesungguhnya tiada rahsia...bacalah kenalilah dengan bijaksana, siapa aku yang sebenar...

rangkap kata itu sebenarnya menyatakan bahawa, andai dirimu benar-benar melihat dan membaca rasa hati, kau pasti akan temui kebenarannya...bukan sekadar memandang pada lapisan kulit yang mampu dicorakkan pelbagai warna...

maafkan bila ku tak sempurna

2008-09-02T13:19:00.001+08:00

Telah jauh terpisah, diriku dan dirimu,
D$lam ruang dan waktu,
Sendiriku jalani sepiku, tanpa dirimu,
Resahku tanpa hadirmu,

Sungguh berat hatiku untuk merasakannya
Salahku mencintai dirinya saat jauhku terpisah
Darimu,Dan hadirnya menyentuh hatiku,
Untuk cintainya,
Hatiku pun inginkannya,
Hingga runtuh setiaku kepada dirimu
Kusakiti hatimu yang tulus mencintaiku….

Maaf ku tak bisa memilih dirimu
Karena kuterhanyut mencintai dia
Inilah salahku yang memberi ruang
Didalam hatiku tuk mencintainya…

hurt

2008-08-30T00:26:00.003+08:00

Seems like it was yesterday when I saw your face

You told me how proud you were but I walked away

If only I knew what I know today

Oooh... I would hold you in my arms

I would take the pain away

Thank you for all you've done

Forgive all your mistakes

There's nothing I wouldn't do

To hear your voice again

Sometimes I want to call you but I know you won't be there

Woah... I'm sorry for blaming you for everything I just couldn't do

And I've hurt myself by hurting you

Some days I feel broke inside but I won't admit

Sometimes I just want to hide 'cause it's you I miss

You know it's so hard to say goodbye when it comes to this

Woah Aai... Would you tell me I was wrong?

Would you help me understand?

Are you looking down upon me?

Are you proud of who I am?

There's nothing I wouldn't do

To have just one more chance

To look into your eyes and see you looking back

Woah... I'm sorry for blaming you for everything I just couldn't do

And I've hurt myself If I had just one more day,

I would tell you how much that I've missed you since you've been away

Oh, it's dangerous It's so out of line to try and turn back time

I'm sorry for blaming you for everything I just couldn't do

And I've hurt myself

By hurting you....

selama masih ada

2008-08-09T23:37:00.002+08:00

Ada sorang lelaki buta. Semua orang bencikan dia, kecuali kekasihnya. Lelaki itu selalu berkata, “Saya akan mengahwini awak di saat saya boleh melihat.” Suatu hari, ada orang dermakan mata kepada lelaki itu. Akhirnya dapat juga lelaki itu melihat. Dengan segera, dia pergi menemui kekasihnya. Tetapi, bila dia melihat kekasihnya, dia merasa sungguh terkejut kerana kekasihnya juga buta.
Kekasihnya bertanya, “Sudikah awak berkahwin dengan saya sekarang?” Tanpa sebarang alasan, lelaki itu menolak. Kekasihnya tersenyum dan berlalu pergi sambil berkata. “Tolong jaga mata saya baik-baik…”

tangis syukur

2008-07-15T18:54:00.001+08:00

pabila sampai saat getir,
barulah aku tahu
padamu aku nukan penting
hanyalah
perhiasanmu..
bukti kau mampu...

bila kukatakan yang aku menyintai bukan untuk memiliki,
ia tidak memberi kebenaran utuk kau lukakan hatiku sampai parah sebegini...kelukaan yang ditelan bukan sekadar menyakitkan, malah membunuh keyakinan dan kepercayaan. ia menjadi racun yang sedikit demi sedikit menghakis rasa, lantas membuatku hilang jiwa...parah...namun bukan salahmu jua, dirikulah yang berdosa kerana tega mnyintai ... kerana sanggup menyayangi...

Que Sera Sera

2008-06-01T20:02:00.001+08:00

Doris Day Que Sera Sera
When I was just a little girl
I asked my mother, what will I be
Will I be pretty, will I be rich
Here's what she said to me.
Que Sera, Sera,
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours, to see
Que Sera, Sera
What will be, will be.

When I was young,
I fell in love
I asked my sweetheart what lies ahead
Will we have rainbows, day after day
Here's what my sweetheart said.
Que Sera, Sera,
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours, to see
Que Sera, Sera
What will be, will be.

Now I have children of my own
They ask their mother, what will I be
Will I be handsome, will I be rich
I tell them tenderly.
Que Sera, Sera,
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours, to see
Que Sera, Sera
What will be, will be.

akan begitukah di hujung cinta?

2008-05-23T16:28:00.002+08:00

awak...

minggu lepas, masa saya drive balik dari tempat praktikal....nampak sorang atuk tengah tolak beca die...isteri die tgh duduk kat dalam beca tu... atuk tu tolak beca die dengan susah payah...sedih saya tengok..dah la tangah naik bukit masa tu..tapi die tetap tolak gak..n settiap kali die tengok nenek tu (isteri dia) die senyum je.. tak merungut pun..tak masam muka pun...

masa tu saa tengah beli kuih, nak makan malam... malas nak g makan kat mana-mana..sorang2 makan tak seronok...

tapi bila tengok atuk tu..saya fikir balik...tu lah sebenarnya cinta...yang tak pernah luput, yang takkan hanyut dan tak padam kerana pudarnya kecantikan, kerana hilangnya upaya, kerana kurangnya gurau senda...

bila difikirkan lagi..macam tu la sepatutnya di akhir cinta...kan begitukah setiap pasangan yang berjanji dan bersumpah setia?
ataupun luput begitu sahaja ditelan masa dan usia?

tulang rusukmu

2008-05-23T16:07:00.001+08:00

WANITA: Siapa yang paling kamu cintai di dunia ini?
LELAKI: Kamu!!!
WANITA: Menurut kamu, saya ini siapa?
LELAKI: (Berfikir sejenak, lalu menatap WANITA dengan pasti).Kamu, tulang rusukku!

Kerana Allah melihat bahawa Adam kesepian. Saat Adam sedang lena tidur, Allah mengambil rusuk Adam dan menciptakan Hawa. Semua LELAKI mencari tulang rusuknya yang hilang dan saat menemukan wanita untuknya, tidak lagi merasakan sakit di hatinya…
Setelah berkahwin, pasangan itu mengalami masa yang indah dan manis untuk sementara. Setelah itu, pasangan muda ini mulai tenggelam dalam kesibukan masing-masing dan kelelahan hidup yang ada. Hidup mereka menjadi membosankan.
Kenyataan hidup yang kejam membuat mereka mulai menyisihkan impian dan cinta satu sama lain. Mereka mulai bertengkar dan pertengkaran itu mulai menjadi semakin panas. Pada suatu hari pada akhir sebuah pertengkaran WANITA lari keluar rumah.
Saat tiba di seberang jalan, dia berteriak “Kamu tidak cintakan saya lagi!!!”. LELAKI sangat membenci ketidakdewasaan WANITA dan secara spontan juga berteriak “Saya menyesali perkahwinan ini! Kamu ternyata bukan tulang rusukku!!!”
Tiba-tiba WANITA terdiam, dan berdiri kaku untuk beberapa saat. LELAKI menyesali akan apa yang sudah dia lafazkan, tetapi seperti air yang telah tertumpah tidak mungkin untuk diceduk kembali. Dengan berlinang air mata, WANITA kembali ke rumah dan mengambil barang-barangnya, bertekad untuk berpisah.
“Kalau saya bukan tulang rusukmu, biarkan saya pergi. Biarkan kitaberpisah dan mencari pasangan sejati masing-masing”.
Lima tahun berlalu. LELAKI masih belum lagi berkahwin, tetapi berusaha mencari khabar akan kehidupan WANITA. WANITA pernah ke luar negeri tetapi sudah kembali. Dia pernah berkahwin dengan seorang asing dan bercerai. LELAKI agak kecewa bila mengetahui WANITA tidak menunggu, sepertinya.
Dan di tengah malam yang sunyi, dia meminum kopinya dan merasakan sakit di hatinya. Tetapi LELAKI tidak sanggup mengakui bahawa dia merindukan WANITA.
Suatu hari, mereka akhirnya bertemu kembali. Di airport, tempat di mana banyak terjadi pertemuan dan perpisahan, mereka dipisahkan hanya oleh sebuah dinding pembatas.
LELAKI: Apa khabar?
WANITA: Baik… kamu sudah menemui tulang rusukmu yang hilang?
LELAKI: Belum.
WANITA: Saya akan terbang ke New York dengan penerbangan berikut. Saya akan kembali 2 minggu lagi. Telefon saya kalau kamu berkesempatan. Kamu tahu nombor telepon saya kan? Tidak ada yang berubah.
WANITA tersenyum manis, berlalu di hujung lafaz “Selamat tinggal…”
Satu minggu kemudian, LELAKI menerima khabar WANITA adalah salah seorang korban Menara WTC. Malam itu, sekali lagi, LELAKI meneguk kopinya dan kembali merasakan sakit dihatinya. Akhirnya dia sedar bahqwa sakit itu adalah kerana WANITA, tulang rusuknya sendiri yang telah dengan bodohnya dia patahkan sendiri…

jentayu

2008-05-06T09:54:00.000+08:00

dalam sebuah destinasi harapan, seharusnya kita sama bergandingan, saling melengkapkan...sama seia sekata dalam membina impian...
kenyataan yang kita katakan jauh..bukan sesukar itu untuk dicapai..kerana tembok itu bukan untuk kita panjat, jauh sekali merobohkan..tapi untuk kita sama sama teliti..sama sama mencai kunci..untuk membuka sebuah pintu yang hilang...untuk membuka pintu hatimungkin dalam perjalanan itu ada antara kita yang terlupa destinasi harapan bersama, dan dia bukan untuk kita tinggalkan, bukankah lebih utuh rasa dan ikatan sesama manusia andai kita sama melangkah..walaupun kita turut rebah...bukankah lebih baik jika antara kita itu adalah sayap, siku dagu dan kuku untuk sang jentayu...sedang jentayu itu adalah diri kita sendiri...
jentayu,
patah sayap,bertongkat siku,
patah siku,bertongkat dagu,
patah dagu, bertongkat kuku...

sang jentayu...hebatnya kerana tidak mencecah bumi...tapi salahkah untuk kita turut sama bermimpi menginjak pelangi walau kaki kita kekal berpijak di bumi...
lewat coretan ini, ingin kupinjam lirik mendua - hampir ke situ...yang pernah kucoretkan di sini sebagai pencetus semangat tika hatiku beku...
Aku sadar bukan mudah
Untuk mengejar mimpi indah
Pernah suatu ketika dulu
Ku punya harapan besar
Kini aku tak pasti
Dapatkan ku miliki................
Sudah jauh kita tempuh
Kekalkanlah impian lalu
Mungkin ada hikmat
Yang akan menunggu
Di penghujung jalan
Biar nanti kecewa
Setidak-tidaknya mencuba................
Jika halangan menduga perjalanan kita
Janganlah kau putus asa
Karena ku ada di sisi setia menemani
Andai semangatmu gugur
Genggamlah tanganku
Kita hampir ke situ.............
Adakala ku terasa
Ketabahan tak setegar
Tetapi apakan daya
Berhenti separuh jalan
Percayalah padaku
Aku yakin kita mampu...........
Biar orang katakan
Rapuhnya harapan
Bukan mereka tentukan lagi
Kau ada aku dan aku punya kamu
Amanlah akhirnya tetap bersama.............
kitalah yang menetukan kejayaan kita..kenapa mesti ada rasa sangsi kalau ikhlas wujud dari dasar hati...kenapa bisa wujud curiga andai jujur menjadi tiangnya...fikirkanlah wahai rakan yang kuharap bisa jadi sahabat..teman yang kuharap bekekalan....

bila cinta berbicara_1

2008-05-04T14:36:00.000+08:00

bila kita mula bicara tentang hati, kita mula terpaku sendiri...membuat andaian tanpa mahu memahami...memandang tanpa mahu melihat sendiri...mendengar tanpa mahu mengerti...lantas, hati kita terluka dek perbuatan kita sendiri...

Hati ini hancur dan luluh kerana mu
Hati ini hancur dan luluh kerana mu
Seandainya ada lagi cinta di hati ini
Akan kubenamkan sepi hanya selamanya

Semalaman di cermin kenangan
Jari berdarah diretak setia
Menanggung luka di sebalik senyuman
Hanya kerana aku seorang wanita

Lemah dunia halanya
Hati kecewa dengan janji manismu
Kini jadi api membakar dada ini

Mungkin cinta bukan berabad lamanya...masa bukan penentu segala...dan kerana rasa cinta yang masih ada dalam dada..diri sering tega mempertaruhkan segala...walau tidak sepatutnya..pengorbanan bukan hanya apabila mempertaruhkan nyawa...tapi juga bila mengerti setiap rasa..bila mengizinkan pengkhianatan yang jelas di depan mata...bila menghiris hati sendiri demi tidak menghiris hati yang lain...bila rasa yang menyesakkan jiwa disembunyi sebaiknya agar tiada yang terluka

Cinta tak beerti sentiasa di sisi, jauh sekali memiliki...tapi untuk sentiasa di hati..walau di mana diri...
suka tak beerti cinta
suka bersamamu tak membawa maksud cinta
kasih bukan cinta
malah sayang masih belum membawa makna cinta

carilah cinta dalam hatimu..ia ada di sana...carilah maksudnya pada jiwamu...di situ kau akan menemukannya... tapi tidak akan pernah ada satu kata yang bisa menghuraikan detik rasa itu dengan sempurna....

Adamku

2008-05-02T09:58:00.000+08:00

Adam,

Maafkan aku jika coretan ini memanaskan hatimu.

Sesungguhnya aku adalah Hawa,

temanmu yang kau pinta semasa kesunyian di syurga dahulu.

Aku asalnya dari tulang rusukmu yang bengkok.

Jadi tidak hairanlah jika perjalanan hidupku sentiasa inginkan bimbingan darimu, sentiasa mau terpesong dari landasan,

kerana aku buruan syaitan.

Adam,

Maha suci Allah yang mentakdirkan

kaumku lebih ramai bilangannya dari kaummu dia akhir zaman,

itulah sebenarnya ketelitian Allah dalam urusanNya.

Jika bilangan kaummu mengatasai kaumku

nescaya merahlah dunia kerana darah manusia,

kacau-bilaulah suasana,

Adam sama Adam bermusuhan kerana Hawa.

Buktinya cukup nyata dari peristiwa Habil dan Qabil

sehinggalah pada zaman cucu-cicitnya.

Pun jika begitu maka tidak selaraslah undang-undang Allah

yang mengharuskan Adam beristeri lebih dari satu

tapi tidak lebih dari empat pada satu waktu.

Adam,

Bukan kerana ramainya isterimu yang membimbangkan aku,

bukan kerana sedikitnya bilanganmu yang merunsingkan aku.

Tapi.....aku risau, gundah dan gulana menyaksikan tingkahmu.

Aku sejak dulu lagi sudah tahu bahawa aku

mesti tunduk ketika menjadi isterimu.

Namun.....terasa berat pula untukku meyatakan isi perkara.

Adam,

Aku tahu bahawa dalam Al-Quran ada ayat yang menyatakan

kaum lelaki adalah menguasai terhadap kaum wanita.

Kau diberi amanah untuk mendidik aku,

kau diberi tanggungjawab untuk menjaga aku,

memerhati dan mengawasi aku agar sentiasa didalam redha Tuhanku dan Tuhanmu.

Tapi Adam, nyata dan rata-rata apa yang sudah terjadi pada kaumku kini,

aku dan kaumku telah ramai menderhakaimu.

Ramai yang telah menyimpang dari jalan yang ditetapkan.

Asalnya Allah mengkehendaki aku tinggal tetap dirumah.

Di jalan-jalan, di pasar-pasar, di bandar-bandar bukan tempatku.

Jika terpaksa aku keluar dari rumah seluruh tubuhku mesti ditutup

dari hujung kaki sampai hujung rambut.

Tapi......realitiny a kini, Hawa telah lebih dari sepatutnya.

Adam..... mengapa kau biarkan aku begini?

Aku jadi ibu, aku jadi guru, itu sudah tentu katamu.

Aku ibu dan guru kepada anak-anakmu.

Tapi sekarang diwaktu yang sama, aku ke muka menguruskan hal negara,

aku ke hutan memikul senjata.

Padahal, kau duduk saja.

Ada diantara kau yang menganggur tiada kerja.

Kau perhatikan saja aku panjat tangga di pejabat bomba,

kainku tinggi menyingsing peha mengamankan negara.

Apakah kau sekarang tidak lagi seperti dulu?

apakah sudah hilang kasih sucimu terhadapku?

Adam.....

Marahkah kau jika kukatakan andainya Hawa terpesong,

maka Adam yang patut tanggung!

Kenapa? Mengapa begitu ADAM?

Ya! Ramai orang berkata jika anak jahat emak bapak tak pandai didik,

jika murid bodoh, guru yang tidak pandai mengajar!

Adam kau selalu berkata,

Hawa memang degil, tak mahu dengar kata,

tak mudah makan nasihat, kepala batu, pada hematku yang dhaif ini

Adam,

seharusnya kau tanya dirimu, apakah didikanmu terhadapku sama

seperti didikan Nabi Muhammad SAW terhadap isteri-isterinya?

Adakah Adam melayani Hawa sama seperti psikologi Muhammad terhadap mereka?

Adakah akhlak Adam-Adam boleh dijadikan contoh terhadap kaum Hawa?

Adam....

Kau sebenarnya imam dan aku adalah makmummu,

aku adalah pengikut-pengikutmu

kerana kau adalah ketua.

Jika kau benar, maka benarlah aku.

Jika kau lalai, lalailah aku.

Kau punya kelebihan akal manakala aku kelebihan nafsu.

Akalmu sembilan, nafsumu satu.

Aku...akalku satu nafsuku beribu!

Dari itu Adam,pimpinlah tanganku, kerana aku sering lupa dan lalai,

sering aku tergelincir ditolak sorong oleh nafsu dan kuncu-kuncunya.

Bimbinglah daku untuk menyelami kalimah Allah,

perdengarkanlah daku kalimah syahdu dari Tuhanmu agar menerangi hidupku.

Tiuplah ruh jihad ke dalam dadaku agar aku menjadi mujahidah kekasih Allah.

Adam,

Andainya aku masih lalai dengan karenahmu sendiri,

masih segan mengikut langkah para sahabat,

masih gentar mencegah mungkar, maka kita tunggu dan lihatlah,

dunia ini akan hancur bila kaumku yang akan memerintah.

Malulah engkau Adam, malulah engkau pada dirimu sendiri

dan pada Tuhanmu yang engkau agungkan itu.......

no wonder man are happier...

2008-04-20T15:56:00.000+08:00

WHY MEN ARE NEVER DEPRESSED:

Men Are Just Happier People-- What do you expect from such simple creatures? Your last name stays put. The garage is all yours. Wedding plans take care of themselves. Chocolate is just another snack. You can be President. You can never be pregnant. You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park. You can wear NO shirt to a water park. Car mechanics tell you the truth. The world is your urinal. You never have to drive to another gas station restroom because this one is just too icky. You don't have to stop and think of whic h way to turn a nut on a bolt. Same work, more pay. Wrinkles add character. Wedding dress $500 0. Tux rental-$100. People never stare at your chest when you're talking to them. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your feet. One mood all the time. !

Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat. You know stuff about tanks.. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase. You can open all your own jars. You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness. If someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend.

Your underwear is $8.95 for a three-pack. Three pairs of shoes are more than enough. You almost never have strap problems in public. You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes. Everything on your face stays its original color. The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades. You only have to shave your face and neck.

You can play with toys all your life. One wallet and one pair of shoes -- one color for all seasons. You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look. You can "do" your nails with a pocket knife. You have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.

You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25 minutes.

No wonder men are happier.

M2M_girl in ur dreams

2008-04-20T15:52:00.000+08:00

I was walking down the street one day
Then I saw you I didn't know what to say
You're eyes were shining
You're smile was so kind
When I saw you I wanted you to be mine

Maybe I don't have the blonde hair you like
Or maybe I don't have eyes like the sky
And I'm not sure if I'm the girl in your dreams
But I can show you what love means

One day you came and talked to me
And you said we are meant to be
I was happy, everything was so nice
But then I found out that everything was a lie
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Maybe I don't have the blonde hair you like
Or maybe I don't have eyes like the sky
And I'm not sure if I'm the girl in your dreams
But I can show you what love means

[BRIDGE]
How could you do this to me
You said we are meant to be
You showed me how to cry
When you told me everything was a lie

Maybe I don't have the blonde hair you like
Or maybe I don't have eyes like the sky
And I'm not sure if I'm the girl in your dreams
But I can show you what love means

kerana kasihku yang terlalu

2008-04-16T11:41:00.000+08:00

Kerana terlalu mempercayaimu

Kau istimewa dalam hidup ku

Kerna terlalu menghormati

Terkeliru pandangan mata hati

Kerana terlalu mengasihi

Akhirnya terluka aku sendiri

dan itulah yang sebenarnya terjadi, kerana kasih yang terlalu, kubutakan hati atas segala tingkahmu, kerana rasa yang enggan kubiar berlalu, aku lukai hati sendiri...
sedenyut nafas jantung bertanya
sedetik rasa, jiwaku berkata...
hanya hati ini yang sering terluka...
malah ia masih jua menyinta...
entah kenapa...

Aku sangkakan mengenalimu

Aku kenali hati budimu

Aku meyakini engkau luhur

Menyayangiku dengan jujur

kiranya semua itu adalah salahku jua..
tersilap perhitungan...lantas hati kubutakan...sayang andai kau tahu betapa hati ini merindumu..
pastinya kau mengerti betapa dalam cintaku..
mengapa perlu kau berikan harapan kalau sekadar untuk melukakan dan kenapa perlu hati ini diraih sekadar untuk membuatnya menjadi serpihan...

Kiranya bagimu itu semua

Hanya satu lakonan, lakonan biasa

Tiada sedikit pun aku sedari

Dipersendakan oh selama ini

Aku sangkakan yang ku gilap

Permata tulen yang berharga

Penilaian ku oh ternyata silap

Kau rupanya kaca tak berharga

zahir yang terlihat

2008-04-07T22:19:00.001+08:00

zahir yang kau lihat, bukan segala-gala.....
bibir tersenyum, menutup hati yang luka...
zahir kau lihat, hanya antara lapis...
bibir tersenyum, menahan tangis...

benar, apa yang terzahir dek pandangan mata tak selalunya segala-galanya....kadangkala, senyum yang terukir hanya sekadar pelingdung pada hati yang meratap tangis. apa yang terzahir kadangkala disalah erti...tanpa ingin diselami dan difahami...
pandanglah dengan mata hati, pastinya kau akan mengerti, pandanglah terus ke dasar hati, pastinya kau akan fahami...
selalulah meletakkan diri di tempat orang lain, sesungguhnya adalah lebih baik tersalah ampun dari tersalah hukum....

and my tears...

2008-04-02T22:31:00.000+08:00

If a girl cries in front of u,
It means that she couldnt take it anymore.

If u take her hand,
she would stay with u for the rest of ur life.
If u let her go,
she couldnt go back tobeing herself anymore.

A gurl won’t cry easily,
except in front of the person whom sheloves the most,
she becomes weak.

A gurl wont cry easily,
only when she love u the most,
she put down her ego.

Guys, if a gurl cries bcoz of u,
please hold her hands firmly,
coz she’s the one who is willing to stay
with u 4 for the rest of ur life.

Guys, if a gurl cries bcoz of u,
please dont give her up,
maybe bcoz of ur decision,
u ruin her life.

When she cry rite in front of u,
When she cry bcoz of u,
Look into her eyes,
Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she’sfeeling?
Think….
Which other gurl have cried with pure sincerity,
In front of u,And bcoz of u?
She cries not because she is weak,
She cries not bcoz she wants sympathy or pity,
She cries,
Because crying silently is no longer possible,
the pain, hurt n agony have bcome too big a burden to be kept inside.

Guys,
Think about it,
If a gurl cry her heart out to u,
And all because of u,
Its time to look back on wat u have done,
Only u will know the answer to it.
Do consider it,Coz one day,
It may b too late for regrets,
It may b too late to say “im sorry”.
think about it.
“Appreciate and love those around u so that u’ll never regret when it is too late..”

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dan buat hati..
usah bazirkan airmata pada yang tak pernah dan tak akan mengerti